is he trying to get me to approve of us cheating?

Question

my bf and i have had lots of cheating in or relationship...i started out as the dirty mistress but he left her for me then i found txt messegaes sent to him by some random chick begging him 4 sex to get even i blew a friend of mine we talked things through but 4 wutever reason i slept with an ex bf of mine just a month later...only to find out he just got dumped by his new gf because he wouldnt allow anything physical to happen...after a few days of fighting and crying we decided to stay together...we do love each other regardless of how it may seem...he just suggested a 3some is this his way of cheating with my approval? wut do i do?

for all of u who rather assume im still like 13 ur wrong im 20 and yes we may not be in the best situation but we do care about each other were there 4 each other wen it counts we just have some major issues with fidelity

Answer 1

You just have issues with fidelity? No, there is a lot more than that.

You started out as his mistress. What should that tell you? If he cheats on someone else, what makes you think he'll be faithful with you?

You don't love each other, you are codependent. I'd seek therapy, or at the very least change your lifestyle. He wants a threeway now? This is ridiculous. If you are serious about you two having a problem, walk away.

Answer 2

This is not a relationship, this is a joke. love? come on, relationship? With these statements, I'm guessing you're what 13? you don't have a clue what love is nor does he, 3some? find something else like education to concentrate on,

Answer 3

Grow up

Answer 4

uummm you have alot of growing up to do, that is definitly a open relationship.................... and that dont mean relationship.
that is so wrong and i aint wasting any more time finishing this


good luck