I almost could amit to loving him but we don't want to be toghter anymore it's never work the last 3 times he calls at mid-night and we talk for hours and i'm always so tired in the morning we talk about stupid stuff that we'd never tell anyone else and we say things about eachother wonderful things and i'm left with nothing the next day, and it feels so empty but i don't want to be with him anymore and now we see eachother everyday and act like we don't know eachother my ggod friends try to push toghter we jst shove eachother away though why is this happening to me and why him and have i fallen for him and losing my mind over a guy i don't want to be with???
2007-02-05 08:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by Kisses From Paris, I love you! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well honey it seems that you think you want to be with him. Maybe because your friends are pushin you two together. But you aint got to put up wit it. If you dont like da boy than move on. It may seem hard at times but you'll see in the end that it is better to move on then to dwell on the past. Good luck girl!
The Queen
2007-02-13 08:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Samoan_gurl0966 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ask yourself 3 questions. "why don't you want to be with him?", "Do you wait for his calls?", and "If he doesn't call do you feel more depressed the next day or relieved?" You need to figure out the answer to these questions before you can understand your true feelings. We sometimes over look little things that make us feel the way we do. It seems as if maybe the way he reacts to you makes you feel empty or the fact your friends pressure you to move faster than you wish to. Tell your friends to back off a little, and speak to him about what he is looking for in this situation. You may be surprised by his response.
2007-02-13 16:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by DCARIES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Any guy that only calls you at midnight or after is not someone that you need to ruin the next day for. When you go to bed, turn the ringer off your phone. If he really wants to talk to you, have him call at a decent hour. If he cannot muster up the n*ts to do so, forget him.
2007-02-13 11:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan A 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just feel bad because you have to dump him..try and toughen up and move on to the next guy..just have some fun while you are young.
2007-02-13 13:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feelings for him are lost. u dont like him (or love him if u once did) the way u used to. i say move on becuz u are just wasting ur time with someone and ur left empty. i felt like that before. but something kept pulling me back to him. but be real with urself. if u dont want the guy just let him go.
2007-02-05 16:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jayda~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe you and him do not know what you want out of a relationship. you need to sit and think about this relationship and tell your friends to let you make your decision
2007-02-13 15:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your losing your mind over a guy you don't want to be with. dump him
2007-02-13 16:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance you might be pleasantly surprised to find that the reason you didnt want to be with him is because you were afraid to admit to yourself that you might actually like this guy!!
2007-02-13 09:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by lollie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dunno.Move on find another guy. You're takin it all too seriously.
2007-02-05 16:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow, that is one long run-on sentence
2007-02-05 16:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋