Girls I need help lol! Theres a girl I like (lets call her jo) but i dont know if she likes me. I asked her out and she said she wanted to come, but it got called off due to missing our movie. The following week she was going out with a group of her friends and asked me to go with them(this was all last min so i didn't go). She knows i like her but she aint told me how she feels. I chat 2 her alot over the internet and we have a joke and a laugh. When we go out I spend alot of time alown with her but never told her face to face how i feel. When i ask her to go somewhere she'l always act like she wants to go but something always happens which stops her. When we are out, she always talks to my m8 about which lads she thinks cute and so on lol Now theres a girl comin to meet me from down the country and she wants to go on a date. I want to know how jo feels before I go on a date with this girl as I would much prefer jo. How will jo feel about this? Does she like me? What should I do next?
2007-02-05 08:41:43 · 14 answers · asked by john j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get that most of you are saying tell her. But i dont wana put her in a situation like that. Her best m8 is dating one of my best m8's and we have become close friends over the year. I have become to reli like her and would much prefer jo, to the girl from down the country.
2007-02-05 08:59:44 · update #1
Go out with the girl from the country - it will do your self esteem good to be with someone you know likes you. Anyway, you are still young and there is nothing wrong with looking about before you decide. It is possible that jo will realise that you are an attractive person when she sees you with someone else! You're in a win-win situation.
2007-02-05 08:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I've gathered, you seem quite shy. Now, what if "jo" is shy too? You're not revealing any feelings, and neither is she. Someone has to make the first move, otherwise neither of you will ever have the answer you're both looking for. Obviously she likes you enough to hang with you, but probably feels a little confused. The next time the both of you go for a bite to eat, or see a movie, grab her hand and tell her you have a confession to make. Tell her how you feel because coming from a girl, confidence is the sexiest quality a man can have. And what have you got to lose? Life is short, so you might as well take chances. As for this other girl coming to meet you...why would you even consider going on a date when you're not even interested? You need to be honest with yourself and the people around you. Best of luck. Be true to yourself, and be true to "jo". You'll see how everything will just naturally fall into place.
2007-02-05 16:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Jo does like you but you really need to ask her how she feels and then see. If she says only as a friend then go out with the one from down the country. Least you have asked Jo and you have her answer. Just remember to talk about it to Jo first as you like her alot, even if Jo just wants to be Friends.
Good Luck.
2007-02-05 16:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First answer was quite in appreciate, as this is a younger age group.
Perhaps Jo is shy or nervous, it sounds like she likes you, or she wouldn't have asked you out . But perhaps a little Jealousy will light a fire, it might be that a date with another girl will get her a little jealous, and let her true feelings shine a tad. No one wants to date a "lap dog" that will run to their every bec'n and call.
2007-02-05 16:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with her like crazy. If she flirts back odds are she likes you. The reason that she keeps canceling your dates may be because of friends that dont agree with her choice. The best possible thing you can do is tell her face to face. Plan something romantic for Valentine's Day maybe? You should also tell her about the gril coming to visit you. Maybe she'll be jealous and will tell you how she feels.
2007-02-05 16:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Emily Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya love what I really think you need to do is sit down and have a think what you really want if its Jo that u want then you need to tell her.The best thing is to be open with this girl as you may mis an opertunity then you will regret it
speak and be heard!!!
good luk love take care
write bk and tell me how u got on
2007-02-05 16:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lovesherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she does like you and shes just being shy about it, Id be straight up honest withh her, i always like it whe guys are totally honest with me and dont beat aorund the bush but then again im different than other girls, you said you joke around with her online, brig it up in a joking way and see how she reacts to it, and tell her no seriously I feel this way and i wanna kow how You feel
2007-02-05 16:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-05 16:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Alicat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and ask the girl out
2007-02-05 16:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you like.
2007-02-05 16:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by denise g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋