please can someone help me keep my sanity in boys.
i havnt had a boyfriend in ages, all my friends seem to be getting loads of guy friends, and they fall at thier feet. is it just me? maybe because i am larger than a size 6, is that why? because i am fat?
2007-02-05 08:36:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be, but have you considered whether or not you have a pleasant personality? Personailty goes a long way.
2007-02-05 08:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be self-esteem. Some guys can sense that if you don't feel good about yourself, then you won't put much into the relationship because you are hung up about your own perceived issues.
Okay, here's my advice. Get to feeling better about yourself. What are your QUALITIES? Expand on them without fooling yourself. Second, if you think you need to lose weight, then do something. Remember, diet AND exercise, but consult a doctor and dietician. But if you are a size 8 and your friends are size 0, then you have nothing to worry about and they have to worry about bulimia.
Lastly, look to different venues to meet new guys. By that, I mean look in other places than your normal hangouts.
2007-02-05 17:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are guys who like bigger girls, but on average guys find thinner girls attractive. If you don't like this fact then maybe a little appetite control and exercise will help you out. On a second note, it's much easier to change your lifestyle to a healthy one while you're still young then it is when you get older. Start going to a gym, start working out, start burning more calories then you consume on a daily basis. You don't have to exist on a diet of rice cakes and green salads for the rest of your life, you just have to burn off more then what you eat.
2007-02-05 16:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by albion53151 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how much larger than a 6 are you? Second, guys aren't attracted to fat girls, well except black guys. Find a dork that's never been laid and you can have a great relationship with him.
2007-02-05 16:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by Isaac C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys want a girl that is thiner then them and theyr mean 2 be like that. some guys dont care aobut size at all. some want a bigger girl just keep on looking 4 a guy u will find one that luvs u just 4 how u r
2007-02-05 16:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by in luv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are trying to hard, over size 6 sounds nice and soft to me ! I wouldnt worry about it, maybe you are dealing with zero's and thats what the problem is.
If you want to send me a picture I will tell you what I think. But honestly size 6 sounds good to me. even a little over couldnt be that bad at all. You are just a little over right?
2007-02-05 16:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ur probably not fat and even if u r there are guys that like bigger women.... and maybe its not cuz ur bigger than a size 6... maybe u have insecurity issues and i dont know any guys that find that attractive!!!
2007-02-05 16:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope, guys dont care about your size, just be who you are and just live life to its fullest, a guy will come your way eventually becuase tere is at least 1 person for every person in the world
2007-02-05 16:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Romeo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt say you were fat- id say underweight personally, sorry if it offends. if you ask a large amount of guys - they will tell you they prefer a girl with meat on their bones ( shapely boobs and ***)
I am a witmess to lawyer and her remark she posted on here.
2007-02-05 16:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your not fat and dont let any one call you that just be your self and guys will notice
2007-02-05 16:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by Cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋