Would u raise a child that wasnt urs???????????
2007-02-05 08:32:09 · 14 answers · asked by Daydreamer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i would because when you love somebody and they have a child you must love that child also with all your heart even if its not yours if you dont love the kid you will love he/she eventualy you will start loving him or her and if your boyfriend or girlfriend does not fell a ounce of love leave him or her
2007-02-05 08:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Carlos A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it. It can be really great. The younger they are when you meet them the better, but any age is good if you can figure out how to connect.
Many times I get along better with my step kids than my wife. Go figure. Having your own later on will change your connection with your step kids so be aware that this can happen.
Really, if you love children then your half way there. The trick then is to watch how the mother interacts with her child and try to mimic this in the beginning. Later you'll develop your own parenting techniques.
I love my step children and I try to treat them fairly when compared to my own child. It's not always even but at least you are giving them your best. Much of the time that can be good enough.
2007-02-05 16:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by IveBeenThere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,if u really loved the person, ull do anything! U wont let a baby get in the way of that love afterall what fault does the baby have??? yea,of course u gotta acknowledge the fact that ITS NOT YOURS, but being with the person that u feel is right 4 u is more important. U can always procreate one of your own. If u just cant live with that idea, just do both of yall a favor and end it.
Good Luck n God Bless
2007-02-05 16:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by martin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really have to like the woman, so much that I couldn't conceive finding anyone better than her, if I were to raise kids that aren't mine. I don't particularly like kids, and I'm not a role model, so I don't know why a girl would want me as a step daddy any way.
2007-02-05 16:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i love her i wouldnt care for the child and i would be with her but only if i knew the child wasnt conceived out of sex and no more. if it was a divorce or something yes i would. but a baby of a hoe no not really i would just be the support and i would be used.
2007-02-05 16:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by MAX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I truly loved her and her child, then yes.
2007-02-05 16:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoptions happen every day.
Is there something that you are trying to avoid saying?
2007-02-05 16:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!
2007-02-05 16:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would if it didnt have a father but if it had a caring father i would love it like my own.
2007-02-05 16:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I raised eight that were not mine.
2007-02-05 17:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋