Loser?? wish you where that person? .. i know a couple of my buddies that are around 35 still goin to 21+ nightclubs and most of the people are around there early 20's. Ive heard different responses from freinds.. they say they are left overs who dont grow up or other say man i wish i was single like him still picking up on chicks..i myself think its ok if you go like 2 times in a yr but not every weekend.what do you think?
2007-02-05 08:23:01 · 14 answers · asked by Louis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's kinda creepy. Even more so because this really creepy old guy was hitting on me last weekend, in front of my boyfriend. He kept wanting me to go home with him, and when i would say no, he kept saying "Mind your elders, Mind your elders"
2007-02-05 08:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by sugar & spice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a certain cutoff, but it depends on the club, and the ages of the habituees.
I'll give you a case in point. My lawyer, who is a few months younger than me, was in a bar in College Station, Texas (home of Texas A&M University). He's hitting pretty blatantly on this girl who is maybe 21. She looks him up and down, ignores the gold business card holder and the Mercedes keys, and says to him, "Shouldn't you be out having drinks and playing golf with my Dad?" He's 45. Yup, that's a bit too old.
2007-02-07 08:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r thinking to have a serious relationship with the girl u find in a night club that means u r mistaking & about the age u say that after 21 u there is better clubs no i dont think so. U or anyone will really feel much better with the company of friends.
2016-03-29 06:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy purposely goes to a club where he knows everyone will be 15-20 years younger than him, that's a little sad and icky. It means he's still not mature enough to relate to people his own age, that he's just there to "chase tail."
And he shouldn't do it at all - just doing it once or twice a year doesn't make it any less pathetic.
2007-02-05 08:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it's ok for them to go when they're around 35 yo, and still single. But don't go too often. Also....very important for these guys...don't try to over-do it and get the girls' attention! Cause then then girls will go back to their friends and say, "eeewww, that old wierd just on hit on me!" Play it cool and try to still act your age! I'm 23 and I wouldn't mind of a 35 yo hit on me, as long as he wasn't ierd and creepy about it!
2007-02-05 08:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think young women like the older guys cause they arent in a hurry, they know ALL the right moves and touches and spots and play a woman like a fine stradavarius violin....once the fine tuning is achieved, then nothing but beautiful music comes out......
2007-02-05 08:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
whats the big deal. 35 year old men are not old. i dont go to them but that is a matter of preference. some men like them younger. 21+ is legal, so whats the problem? even 18+ clubs are legal....????
2007-02-05 08:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you considered the possibility that 'the old person' is someone who works there? The manager, or owner perhaps?
2007-02-05 08:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Double O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, they go there to pick up girls, what does it matter for anybody where they pick them - at clubs, bars or anywhere else? I mean, they would have been picking younger girls anywhere, so let them.
2007-02-05 08:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey theyre still having fun like they are in their youths....i do think they are losers too but who am i to judge.....maybe they work their or their undercovers. who knows...all i know is that if they are having a great time, good for them.
2007-02-05 08:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by kp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋