When will they realize that nice guys should not finish last.
2007-02-05 08:20:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is so cliched....
I am skeptical that girls choose bad boys over nice guys!! Maybe the boys that say they are "nice" are just being percieved by other "nice guys" as being "bad boys"??
I mean, otherwise you are just generalising way too much. I date a nice guy, & always have....bad boys are morons!!
2007-02-05 08:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When will they realize this? Perhaps too late, one of the reasons there are so many divorces. Why do girls often choose bad boys over nice guys? Because those guys are often more assertive and confident, even if they are also rude and only see the girl as a piece of asss. Nonetheless, (and I sure hope I'm right about this), I think that the good that you do will come back to you. In being a nice guy, even if you do not get as many girls on a regular basis, the ones (or one) you do eventually find will be worth the wait and you will likely have a deeper, longer-lasting relationship.
2007-02-05 08:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
about the same time that this answer is not asked again which is never OK for the 6859 time Women are born help mates, they see some one that in their minds need to be helped (bad boy) they rush in and give it their all. because they hope the potential they see will be realized. never happens, so they try again, and again, until they get to know they are never going to win that war, but like our American friends they just do not give it up as a lost cause, they keep giving and giving, . As for the nice guys , you are right, you shouldn.t finish last, so you are going to have to get together and come up with a plan that will attract women that are attracted to needy men, but please do not turn bad just for the sake of getting a girlfriend, the whole premise is a lie and won;t last Best of luck on this one
2007-02-05 08:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your really not thinkin ur a nice guy.. I have read a few answers u have posted and feel compelled to share with you that you might be that a$$ ur saying girls fall for. With that said u charged me $40 when u charge $80 an hour... If it took u that long to read it, that makes u a dumb a$$ too which MIGHT be why ur not getting any play. Dumb, Jerk and Laywer.. Great combo buddy.. Ever think about driving off a cliff? If so, I'll provide the vehicle
2007-02-05 09:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Paytonluv22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for all women, but it's not the bad boy they are attracted to, it's the excitement they provide. Excitement will lead into passion which is usually short-lived. But the nice guy (as well as smart hopefully) can learn to obtain a good woman through other ways just by letting her see that you are not only smart, funny and you understand her, but also that you wont be stepped on, taken advantage of or have your back kicked in.
2007-02-05 08:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last because they are not willing to admit that they are just as ruthless as a bad boy. With nice guys it's like they're hiding something, and they're only nice to you for a reason. With a bad boy everything is out in the open, and they give us a chance to change them with our love. A guy who is half and half, who is nice, honest, but isn't perfect is the perfect man. He gets upset at you, may yell at you, but he still respects you and you know what he is capable of. My boyfriend is a good and bad boy, We're both Christians so I don't really know if you'll understand this, but he's the type of person who is a generally nice person, but he doesn't take any crap. I love him, he treats me like a queen and when he does things for me I don't feel like it's because he wants something from me, but because he loves me. I feel loved. He's bad when I need him to be, but he's perfect for me. He's not like gangster bad or slap-me-around-and-and-call-me-suzanne-bad. So I hope this answers your question.
2007-02-05 08:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't always true. I'm with a really nice guy. And I don't go for the bad boys. You just have to find a girl that wants to be with you because of who you are.
2007-02-05 08:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by grumpybear0718 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're making a ton of generalizations here.
One nice guys do not finish last, I happen to date a nice guy, he looks like a rebel but he has a heart of gold.
Two girls will like what they like and sometimes they won't like you, but I guarantee you, there is a chick out there looking for a sweet guy who will care for them. To be honest, no girl wants a guy who is going to ignore her and treat her like crap. They may want a man who seems dangerous, but never one who actually is.
2007-02-05 08:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do many guys like the hot dumb blonds over the moderately attractive smart girls. Same thing. Thrill of the chase. As we get older, we start coming around! Finishing last is ok....that means you won't die lonely ;)
2007-02-05 08:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by sleep_chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they like the mystery and adventure of something questionable, and need to get burned a few times before giving nice boys a chance.
2007-02-05 08:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋