i can never seem to find a guy who treats me right,has a job, or doesn't still live at home. I always go for the rejects! WHY?
2007-02-05 08:10:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem...and they're usually ugly...it's cuz they want what they can't have (us pretty people)
Lol, that was really conceited of me...but seriously, I have no idea...it sucks sometimes :-(
2007-02-05 08:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the guys who are responsible, considerate and financially stable are generally not as exciting as the "bad boys" but in the long run they are a lot more rewarding. Maybe you go for the rejects because you want to rescue them, or you like feeling superior to them, or you think you don't deserve any better. Here's what you do: don't go out with or even hang out with guys who you know are losers! If that means no dating at all until you meet someone nice, then at least you're not being dumped on by some ratty spoiled immature guy. NIce guys are not as cool or sexy but they are so worth it.
2007-02-05 16:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca G 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i always attract the jerks, and its still a mystery to me. or not really, cus recently i learned that women stick to certain type of guy. but they do it subconciously. like you attract rejects. even though you mean to, when you meet a guy, you feel attracted to him if he has certain things that you like and seem familiar to you cus you've seen them before in other guys, then you realize that he's actually a loser. maybe its time to stop looking for the same qualities you usually look for in guys that seem to take you to the kind that you dont like.
2007-02-05 16:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I live in my moms basement, does that make me a loser?
I just wish i had a girlfriend with a nice apartment and a good job. I can sit at her place and play x-box without hearing my mom yell "get a job!" all the time.
2007-02-05 16:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by azsoccerfan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, to say you go for the ones you are attracted to. I always go after the girls that can't love me back and have nothing to do with the ones that love me.
2007-02-05 16:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in high school? All the interesting people were less than popular. None of them were what I'd call losers.
2007-02-05 16:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by John K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don' t feel too bad most woman do the same, you are attracting your mental equivelant in this area. Change your expectations and DON'T COMPROMISE.
2007-02-05 16:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, my mom has the same people except its old men and homeless people (yuck)
2007-02-05 16:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋