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this kid likes me no he dont like me he loves he he cutt himself because of me and he didnt like me going out with this kid and thats when he got mad i told him i liked him but now i cant help but go back out with the kid he dont like:[ i think i did something bad help me what would you do
this kis is as you call it
[emo][suicidal]

2007-02-05 07:46:53 · 16 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

This boy cut himself over it? The answer is simple here. Your friend has some serious mental health issues and needs help and counseling immediately. ESPECIALLY if he is suicidal.

TELL A PARENT. TELL A TEACHER. TELL A COUNSELOR. TELL AN ADULT RELATIVE OR FRIEND. TELL THE SCHOOL LIASION POLICE OFFICER IF YOU HAVE ONE.

TELL SOMEONE. BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE.

DO IT NOW!!

2007-02-05 07:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Fred F 1 · 0 0

Look if u like that other guy,cool then help urself to going out with him,but if u dont and ur doin it jus bcuz u told the "kid" that u did. Then ur doing urself wrong. What normally happens is that u try to get as far away as possible from the guy thats obsessed with u that u 4get to talk and explain the situation to him gently. If u continue to ignore his feelings just bcuz u dont feel the same way, hes going to continue to be persistant in his obsession towards u. U obviously care for him to b asy dont u show him just as a friend how much better he can do than trying to b w/sumone that doesnt feel the same way.(not tryin to put u down)

2007-02-05 16:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by martin c 2 · 0 0

Seems to be that this kid is psychotic and a danger to himself and you too. The best thing to do is to ignore him completely. When telling someone like him that you like them, they take it that you're madly in love with them. These type of boys tend to stalk girls and become jealous when they see other men. You need to realize that it is not your fault that he cuts himself. That is part of this kid's illness and he needs immediate help. However, at the same time, tell your parents or someone that can help protect you from this very sick person.

2007-02-05 15:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Randy 4 · 0 0

First off, he does not love you,love gives expecting nothing in return. This guy is lieing to himself and giving himself an excuse to draw attention to himself by using fear to control your actions. He is unable to show love cause he feels unloved. Until we know that we are loved and excepted by Christ Jesus,because He paid for the penalty of our sins, We are a me,me,I,I, society,selfish and self destructive. This boy needs to know His heavenly Father loves him and could sure use him on His team and trust God to bring his bride to be to him, Father knows how to pick the best cause He sees the heart,and knows the end from the beginning. Yeah! Keep yourself for your spouse,trust in The Lord and He'll make your path straight.

2007-02-05 16:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by In Light 3 · 0 0

This boy who is cutting himself needs help. He's probably not going to help himself so you need to go the the school counselor, a teacher, the principal etc. and tell them what is going on. They can take it from there.
I'm also going to suggest that you see a counselor and stay single.
At any rate, good luck and stay safe.

2007-02-05 15:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Yogini 6 · 0 0

well if you like him tell him to stop cutting himself and go out with him if you dont well why did you tell him that in the first place? well you have to chose, the guy that cuts him self or the other guy? and who cares if he is emo or suicidal it really doesnt matter

2007-02-05 15:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by allexcheer247 1 · 0 0

Its not your fault.He needs help mentally.Call an ambulance & send them to where he is.You can call anonomously.Make a "mental hygene arrest".Tell them that when you call. Its not as bad as it sounds.All they do is take him in for an evaluation & give him the help he desperately needs such as counciling & meds.He will be released that same day.Once he is in touch with the right people,,he will begin to get better.So,,do the right thing.And,,get on with your life,,his problems are his own as yours are your own.

2007-02-05 15:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Let him know that after going out you realized you only like him as a friend and did not feel anything else there as much as you would had liked to, there was not, but that does not mean we can still hang out and kick it together.

2007-02-05 15:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by claudr_30 2 · 0 0

OMG. let him down VERY VERY easy.. wk by wk.

Or, Try Getting other girls to flirt with him.. Get him to like other girls.

Also Do things that will turn him off. Like change your style, Chew gun in a bad manner. Do Diffrent several things that he will be liek eww, or NVM! shes ugly stuf liek that.

2007-02-05 15:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are obviously still in school, so go to the coucelor and tell them what he is doing and that he needs help. They will contact his parents and go from there. You need to step out of this until he has it under control..

2007-02-05 15:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0 0

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