2007-02-05 07:41:32 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I need some help how?
Hes a good man he makes me laugh and I have a good time with him he buy me whatever I want but something inside tell me no to be with him....
2007-02-05 07:45:08 · update #1
Hes 33 and I'm 21..... And we work together....
2007-02-05 07:45:41 · update #2
we've have only been going out for a week or two but we've been dating for 5 months....
2007-02-05 07:54:54 · update #3
Let him know exactly that.. You are not into him any more but in a subtle way like your a great guy, I like the way you......and that makes you a geat person, I just do not have any kind of feelings for you as a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship, but only as a good friend.
2007-02-05 07:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by claudr_30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to break up with him...which is really really hard, I know, because I've been there. I can advise you not to do it over email, like I did. That's a bad way to break up with people in general, but I didn't have the nerve to do otherwise. It's hard no matter how you do it though. Good luck.
2007-02-05 07:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your instincts.
Not sure how old he is or how he reacts to bad news so that will obviously affect the answer but
if you were dating him, you owe him a face to face explanation of why you are dumping him.
YOU would want that in return!
2007-02-05 07:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest in a diplomatic way so not to lose him if you think he is a good person and you'd like him to stay in the friend zone if possible...
diplomatic does not mean rude or anything, be nice and emotional, making it clear that it was not easy doing it and breaking up!
good luck girl...
2007-02-05 07:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him,.......im not into u like i was, if u want to b friends w him then tell him but other then that make sure he knows u dont like him like a bf and if something insids is telling u not to b w him then dont
2007-02-05 07:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Shi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well girl ....you need to go with your heart bc it better to get out now then drag it out and hurt him more in the long run ...you may feel like this bc you have feelings for someone else or bc he may be cheating ...all i can say is if you dont want to be in it get out
2007-02-05 07:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by Erica R@e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let him know how you feel , Honesty is always better . It might hurt for a bit but will soon pass
2007-02-05 07:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't hold back. if you think it's time to end the relationship than do it. always follow your first mind or you might just end up hurt.
2007-02-05 07:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by superstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you just have to tell him that. It is not easy, but it's the best way.
2007-02-05 07:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make a clean break!!!!!
Move on with your life girlfirend!!!!
Good Luck to you!!!
2007-02-05 07:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by angels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋