Do men like bustier women & why?

Question

I am a 34C and a lot of guys pay attention to my bust and nothing else and i wanted to know y????????????????????

Answer 1

JESUS, ROBIN THIS IS MY 2ND ANSWER TO YOU TONITE, men simply adore women with big ****, including me its just a man thing dont take any offence to it, if your that way endowed, be proud.

Answer 2

It's an aedipus(not real sure on the spelling, but has to do with roman history) complex thing. Men are most usually attracted to busts because of the motherly nurturing they had when they were an infant. Some say that men usually look for a mate that is similar in physical proportions to their mothers. As for you, be happy that men are paying attention to you, but don't use it for an advantage in picking them up, it can get you in some predicaments that you don't need. To me, boobs are boobs, and even though they are fun to play with, they don't make up the whole woman.

Answer 3

In America and England many men have a fetish for big breasts regardless of the rest of the woman's body. Other men (many Frenchmen for example) on the other hand prefer women with smaller breasts who appear lighter and more juvenile and stay firm longer. It's a different kind of feminity - less straight into your face. Again In Latinamerica men have more a fetish for bottoms. In Africa many women traditionally don't cover up their breasts because it's not a fetish for the men overthere but will cover up other parts of their body. So yes I think it's a cultural and/or personal fetish.

On the other hand I hate it as well when some men reduce women to different body parts instead of seeing the person as a whole.

Answer 4

well girl let me tell you it will always be the same way guys love what is appealing to the eye. Men have imaginantions and we dont want to go into all that but they do. Usually guys like bustier women because its sexually appealing and i wear an 38 c not huge but big enough. Now dont get me wrong not all guys like huge **** just most . if they want to look let them just make sure thats not the only reason they are looking at you.

Answer 5

It's a biological misconception that bigger breast mean more milk for babies, and so, this and wide childbearing hips are primevally attractive to men. Yes we know smaller breast are generally better for breast feeding, but we are talking about something we've found attractive from when we came down from the trees.

Personally I don't like them too big, and I'd say 34C would be bang on perfect ;-)

Answer 6

North American society has conditioned males to be fixated on women's chests. This isn't as much of a problem elsewhere in areas where women can freely show their chests. It isn't an excuse for guys but some of the thinking behind it at least makes it a bit more understandable.

Answer 7

34C is not that bustier, thats pretty average and maybe even on the smaller side depending your body size. Speaking only for myself, there are things that are attractive about small breast as well as large ones. To answer your question; however, its all about how you present them, small, medium, or large.

Answer 8

well honestly it is like this c is basically the prefect size for me:

Brutal honesty here:

While making love a woman why a C cup has well her chest to move around well in circles it catches my eye and make sme more well into it. An thus it gets better and better,

really personal stuff but it 2007 and everything is screwed anyway.

Answer 9

If your a guy that just so happens to be the first thing that catches your eye (like if you saw a man walking down the street with no pants). Some guys love a busty woman. Personally I could care less.

Answer 10

This can be explained by understanding where humans have come from. Our psychology makes us attacted to those whom we see as most fit to reproduce and thus produce viable offspring.

Now these are secondary sex characteristics and do not really relate to ones fitness or ability to produce viable (healthy, fertile, verile) offspring. however it is still there.

Much like the female peacock mates with the male with the most flamboyant display, or fireflies are attracted to each others light display, human males unconciously see secondary sex characteristics as relating to better offspring, but also better sex.

This is a leftover of our ancestry and is in some religions referred to as our "worldly" or "flesh".

Most women are confused at this because our female ancestors did not place such importance one secondary sex characteristics. Women today are more attracted to men that appear wealthy, confident, supportive...able to supply protection and "put food on the table" A study was done where pictures were taken of a young, fit, and attractive man dressed in street bum clothes standing out on the street. Another taken of him in a suit next to a luxury car. Women found the second man to blow them away, most were overly attracted. What was curious was they had no clue it was the same man until they were told and then had to be shown the pictures side by side.

From our ancestry, men are more concerned with secondary traits because we "think" larger breasts = better lactation = healthier children. A certain stomache to hip angle is seen as more attractive because it correlates to and easier birth which means the woman and child are more likely to survive birth. Secondary traits are also seen to correlate to sex drive and pleasure. Now in fact these things do not affect either the womans sex drive or ability to produce healthy offspring. However, hip size will affect natural births.

Women, as a result of our ancestors, tend to be more attracted to men who appear strong, supportive, confident, etc etc...

A mature male understands his primitive drives and does not allow them to alter his decision making abilities. These immature boys who pay more attention to your bust are not developed enough to handle any kind of relationship and if you became involved with them it would be a relationship centered around their needs. So, it is annoying and I apologize on behalf of all the real men who recognize physical beauty, but also realize that a good body and good personality do not go hand in hand.

Answer 11

so not that large then!

its a shame that we do this but what do you eye up in a man...everyone has a particular initial attraction...it wears off in that after a while other details take precedence such as eyes...laughter.....attitude but we are predisposed to look at a lady as a mother to our kids and a larger bust says that you can provide a childs milk..

from a purely personal point of view i adore a bosom.....

i find it comforting attractive and feminine..

i say and again if i offend i apologise if you got it flaunt it...