did your ex change the way u see things, the way u react, the way u smile.....etc
my ex gave me such a hard time, that i took the path of celibacy afterwards
what about u?
2007-02-05 07:36:23 · 9 answers · asked by The Hitman 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure. I hate to give him that much power, but yeah..he actually changed the way I veiw lots of things. Its mostly because when you trust someone, you trust that they will take care of your heart, not use your weaknesses to their advantage and abuse them.
Now Hitman, I wouldn't go so far as to say that he made me celibate! LOL...
But yeah, he made me more careful about trusting others. He swore that he wouldn't hurt me, after I told him about my previous history with guys. And he did anyway. I can't fully blame him, but he was a major contributor to my state.
I have my good days and bad days. But at the end of the road, I know I am going to be okay, and am dilligently working to reverse whatever damage he did.
Because I think I am worth it. And I want the next guy to have the full me....the REAL me.
2007-02-05 08:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex changed the way i look at myself. i use to just despise myself and now i love who i am and can accept myself. which made me feel more confident and change my look. and yeah also my smile and the way i react.
2007-02-05 07:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you've been somewhat too not ordinary. rather because you adult adult males broke up because of distance and cuz u kinda screwed up, it is compared to she dealt with you badly contained in the first position really. a minimum of she's attempting, it should be not ordinary for her being so some distance from you and interior of temptation of adult adult males who're a lot closer yet she needs to objective with you. you ought to set barriers for sure, yet attempt to take all of it slowly.
2016-11-02 09:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
For the first time I now know I was right and she was WRONG
2007-02-05 07:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by harvman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes now I know my mistakes
2007-02-05 07:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-05 07:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no.If it wasn't for my ex I wouldn't be the person I am that alot of girls like.
2007-02-05 07:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by wahid d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine...had a whole nother girlfriend ...but no I am the same
2007-02-05 07:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by TheKid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, my ex taught me never to get too attached.
2007-02-05 07:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋