I have been dating this guy for about two months now. We both really care about each other. I am in my early twenties and he is a few years older than me. I am still a virgin, do I tell him? Will that change the way he feels about me?
2007-02-05 07:24:40 · 6 answers · asked by southernbell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being a virgin will make no change.
he wants you and that is that.
two months in he is not just after sex.
he would have pushed before now if that was his sole goal.
tell him if you feel the time is right.
you are doing well keeping yourself pure this far
good luck
2007-02-05 07:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...I am not sure if it is going to change his feelings but I would highly suggest that you tell him. It is better now than later. You don't want to tell him once you are in bed. At least talk about it and see where he stands from it as a general topic and then you will see. It is not a bad thing at all the fact you are still a virgin but some guys prefer not to be the one who o through it with you.
2007-02-05 15:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jay C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you get to that point in your relationship where you both are thinking about moving to the next phase, I would not mention it. But, I would be prepared for him to speak his mind that this might not be something he is willing to wait for marriage for. If you have been dating about two months, and this has not come up yet, he may be very understanding about it. Most guys Like virgins.
2007-02-05 15:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't truly love you, he'll want sex before he marries you.
2007-02-05 16:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a agree with kasey... if it is meant to be it won't bother him a bit. he should feel special!
2007-02-05 15:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely loves you he shouldn't care.=]
2007-02-05 15:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋