he does not act the same to me sense i said no and he looks at other women he hardely even hugs me any more inless he wants something he said he loves me but i dont think he does he goes off on me for the littlest things he said he just wants to live life i dont think that is so great do u think he loves me are do u think he will cheat on me
2007-02-05 07:15:31 · 8 answers · asked by mrstula 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to break it to you, but speaking as a dude, this guy is doing everything in his power to try and get you to break up with him. He obviously isnt man enough to do it himself, hence he is trying all the classic techniques of ending a relationship. Three some (never in a serious relationship), just wants to "live life" (might as well say I already am cheating on you). You should do yourself the favor and dumping this guy who is not worth your time or attention.
2007-02-05 07:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a christian guy, im sorry but if he wants to be mad just bcuz he dont get it his way,its called being SELFISH!! It sounds 2 me like hes getting over u and just wants to use u as much as he can. If he wants a threesome he would already be cheating on u in ur face. A relationship is based on 2 people who love each other, a 3rd person is simply out the question. I highly recommend a book by Joshua Harris, its called " I Kissed Dating Goodbye" u can find it in a christian bookstore!! If a guy really loves u that question would never b in his mind. Good LUck
2007-02-05 15:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by martin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break up with him immediately. He certainly isn't giving any signs that he really loves you. If he's been giving you the cold shoulder just because you don't want to have a threesome and only acts affectionate toward you to get something, you deserve someone much better. You can live life without having a threesome and it sounds like you could live life much better without him.
2007-02-05 15:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point I don't think you should be so concerned about what we think. You're obviously doubting him, you don't feel loved and his request for a threesome underlines that he is not a one-woman-guy. It seems that you've lost some trust in your relationship. Once you lose trust it's almost impossible to get it back and without it, your relationship won't work. Think about yourself and what's going to make you happy because you also have a right to "live life". Good Luck
2007-02-05 15:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Leohades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the dude to the curb - he probably has already cheated. Get out now!
2007-02-05 15:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by swmiller888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he neither loves OR respects you.
Yes, I think he's already cheated on you.
Think of it this way--if you do a threesome with him and someone else, he can hold that over your head FOREVER....
2007-02-05 15:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when people post their questions with broken English, you don't deserve answer from smart guy like me.
2007-02-05 15:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
do not give in...you will lose respect for yourself and he will just be meeting his own fantasy.
2007-02-05 15:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋