we've broke up like 20 times. he says he'll change and do better and he never do. well i left him again and now hes calling again. how can i get him to realize i dont want him anymore without being mean to him. its over i have no more love for him to damage. he keeps saying he knows he was wrong. why does he keep saying that if he knows he not going to change? plz can someone tell me that. doesnt he see the pattern he has set. doesnt he see we keep breaking up. why does he want to keep going down the same route? i know i dont. so thats why im staying apart. but i hate to be mean to him. i just want him to realize its over as far as us dating. what do you think?
2007-02-05 07:09:11 · 6 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you have taken him bak so many times before it will take him a while to know this time its for real. as for being mean may be thats what it takes for him to get the message. tiz not going to be easy but if you mean what you say just dont give into him again.believe me i was a boomerang babe for 6 years!weve been apart now for a year and hes finally got the message theres no going backwards can only go forewards. B strong and good luck
2007-02-05 07:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're smart to let him go. here's how to make him go away permanently without being "mean" - don't answer anymore of his calls, emails, anything. cut him off cold turkey, do not have any more contact with him! tell him not to contact you anymore. i think that's what you'll have to do to get him to stop bothering you - good luck, you're better off without him.
2007-02-05 15:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. I had to do that. My ex kept calling, and started stalking me. That was my only option
2007-02-05 15:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by sugar & spice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him come back. Tell him he had his chance and obviously things are not working out between you and that you are moving on for good.
2007-02-05 15:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number...end ALL contact with him. I know you don't want to be mean but you gotta do what's best for you :)
2007-02-05 15:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop answering your phone and stop going back to him. if you really dont want to be with him then you wont be. Its that simple.
2007-02-05 15:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by The one who knows 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋