I love my girl friend alot but very recently she was married. I tried to convience there parents but no use. She is not happy with her husbad and feeling suffocated. She want to return and stay with me forever. I love her alot that I could not able to concentrate on my work. Every moment reminds me about her and its quite difficult for me to live without her. Her husband has supported her family for 2 year. Her husbad know the affair but married her. He asked my Girl friend not to leave him. Now she want to come back but later date. She is in confusion. she said that she would like to run away with me but in later date. She is looking for a chance.
2007-02-05 07:07:06 · 14 answers · asked by Thoole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's already married, so she shouldn't run away with you. It sounds like he really loves her, because even though she has an affair with you, he married her. He's been supporting her family for 2 years.. that's a long time.... If you run away with her, will you be able to support her too?? Be realistic and let go.
2007-02-05 07:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you were the husband how would you feel if someone on the outside was trying to come in and make things worse then what they are in your home?If she really wants to be with you than she needs to make it legal and get a divorce from her husband .Otherwise she can go back to him any time and you would just be an affair and a mistake.And lets say if you both did it legal,would you be confident enough to know in your heart that she wouldn't do the same to you with another guy ,that she is doing to her husband?You need to reevaluate the situation and determine if this is what you really want.
2007-02-05 15:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr thoole i think you should move on with your life and start afresh. Honor her married vows, u can talk to her as a friend, but nothing else. If she'd loved u like u love her she would have never married that guy no matter what anyone said to her. She's just after money not love, she is just using as a fling though she is married.
So get out! before you get hurt even more. by the way if she wanted to run away with you nothing will be able to stand in her way. so like before move on with ur life change ur number ect.
2007-02-05 15:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by bootygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away with the one you love sounds romantic but not realistic, well except of your financially stable. Sounds like you need to stop falling head over heals for this one until she makes up her mind. She has you where she wants you, but that may not be where she wants you in the future. Why is she married still? B/c she doesn't know what she wants. You can't worry too mucha bout this one.
2007-02-05 15:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kind_Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? this sounds very childish.first of all she made a commitment to her husband.if she didn't love him she should not have married him.if she needs to get out of the marriage there are lawyers. running away just makes things worse.what if you are accused of kidnapping? do not run.first thing first she needs a place to live then a job she needs to file for divorce.you need to keep your mind on your job.you both will need the money.oh yea, its not her responsibility to support her family.there is low income housing, food stamps and better yet jobs or collage.good luck because your gona need it.
2007-02-05 15:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry & I know this isn't the answer you want or 1 you will like.
She married another man instead of you & he is supporting her family.
She chose money & her family over you & is keeping you on the hook too.
She made her choice , she has to live with that choice.
Did she love you while vowing to love him?
Did she love you while taking HIS name?
Does she love you while she shares his bed?
I doubt it very much Hun....
Go find someone that can truly give you her heart & put you first in her life.
You know you deserve better than that.
2007-02-05 15:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her... if she's willing to break the heart of a man whom she vowed to forever love and honor she probably isnt the best mate for you..... and who wants the guilt of being in an affair...shes too emotional unstable... she needs to be alone for a while and clear her head and not bring you along on her emotional rollercoaster... b/c in the end the only one who will end up getting hurt is you
2007-02-05 15:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like she and her family are gold digging.
You would only get resentment in the end coz her family would loose income and she would not have as much to spend either.
drop her get over it.
If you had nice sex smile and remember that you f*ck a rich mans concubine and move on. that is all she is to him
2007-02-05 15:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a good idea for your girlfriend to leave home until she is ready...
yes it seems like your girlfriend is very confused, what she needs to do is support her own family and you need to be there for her because if she is unhappy in her relationship that means that she is going to forever be miserable.....
she needs to make some choices and make them fast so that she can be happy..... for herself.... good luck!
2007-02-05 15:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a pretty f*cked up chick, if you do run away togather she will pull the same crazy BS on you. I say bail on that one buddy.
2007-02-05 15:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋