When I come across girls, they always tend to be shy. So shy to the sort that could not talk straight, insult you to gain attention or hides from you everytime you are near them. This happens despite how long I know them.
Is there some sort of age before they finally mature? (funny thing is I am able to intimidate women 10-15 years my senior)
Is this a 99.9% of the female population thing?
Is it a trend thing?
I understand that most girls love to be approached; no problem with me but whe they lack all confidence it kinda lacks credibility and creates annoyance. Is there another reason for their behaviour?
2007-02-05 07:03:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like to thank those who reply to this question. This problem has been bugging me all my life, I want to know what is going on. If you want, I can email you a photo of me and you can throw insults and criticisms at how bad I look - email me at maskedmarada2000@yahoo.co.uk; i will not need your names (no offence).
Cheers again.
2007-02-05 08:15:00 · update #1
We should totally meet. ive always wanted to meet a guy that intimidated me! i am inclined to believe that they do not exist. But i empathise with you as women are supposed to mature faster than males but generally they are just as naive.
Go to london, the girls are well fiesty there.
2007-02-05 07:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps they just don't like the way you 'come across' maybe they are trying to put you off? If so it seems to be working.
You describe yourself as an attractive bloke but part of the attraction a woman feels towards a bloke/guy is down to personality. If, as you say, you are 'able to intimidate women 10-15 years my senior' why do you do it? It sounds as if you gain pleasure from this, maybe you actively seek to get this reaction? Try just being an ordinary, pleasant, chatty guy. Not out to chat up, just to chat. Not trying to win points, just being yourself...I'm sure most women, of any age, would find that much more interesting and appealing
2007-02-05 07:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are the same. Not even 99% of them. And we all mature at different ages there is no set age for this.
I have to say you make it sound as though women are completely blown away by your (so called) good looks. You really are something if you think that. (That's something being egotistical & arrogant)
I really don't need to e-mail you, see a photo of you or throw insults at you to know you are so far up your own axx!
I think you should be questioning your own behaviour before that of the women you have met. Look a little closer to home sunshine.
2007-02-11 07:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by 2talkornot2talk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur prolly a teen i am too. I was insecure before and actually some days i still act insecure but ive gotten much more confident over the school year. N u kno why? Because ive gone up to people. Gotten the guts to walk up the guy i had a crush on and i didnt even kno him! And i had more confidence. U just have to realize people arent as bad as they seem to be. U might think this because ur expecting negative things. Wear, walk and talk how u want (but not trashy haha). And talk to more people u dont know, ive never had the guts to, and i was always shy, and now im talking to a bunch of people. Trust me the more and more u do it, the more confidence and easier it will b
2016-05-24 18:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not mixing in the right circles, I have a group of friends four of us in all and we are all over 30 under 40 we are all good looking girls but two of them are stunning, I have two daughters that even though I should not say myself are very beautiful so for me beauty on the outside must also be on the inside you might be aware your good looking and that is showing in your personality and because you are confident in how you look you make girls feel intimidated or shy, think about how you are in side you know its OK outside maybe then women will be different with you
2007-02-09 01:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you are truly totally gorgeous.. women will act shy around you .. try taking a more casual approach by calling them. Give them your phone number and let them call you. I think, however,you should look to any female friends you have, sister, co-workers and ask this of them. You come across as a bit arrogant and your body language may be scaring them. If you are tall or large and have aggressive body language they will back away. I have met a few men that are perfectly harmless big OGRE's .. they come across rough and tough.. but are big teddy bears.. but have NO idea how they come across to women. I'm working on changing that .. one OGRE to Teddy Bear at a time. I hope this helps.
2007-02-12 18:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im yet to meet a man who intimidates me. Maybe youre just speaking to the wrong sort of girl?
2007-02-05 08:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by fallenangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a gob shite,me myself would have no prbs playing with you,but not all women have lived breathed and worked in a male dominated environment,so if you really want to pull he correct women calm down man lol
2007-02-05 07:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by live life 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that your so full of yourself that even the most confident of 'ladies' are confounded by your affronts. Perhaps you should stop launching yourself at them and sit back to see who has the nerve to approach you. I'd give them credit for trying. . . . I don't think I'd have the nerve.
2007-02-11 11:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When an attractive bloke is genuinely interested in having a conversation.
2007-02-13 01:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by MI5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋