With her baby's dad. He is crazy and still doesnt want to let her go. What should I do? He knows she is seeing someone else, but he doesnt know me.
2007-02-05 07:01:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Avoid her until she gets things worked out. Don't get in the middle of that unless you want to start a relationship under durress and will not be healthy since both of you will have to deal with the stress. Let her figure things out and come to you with a clean slate.
2007-02-05 07:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are going through a break up you should not do anything right now...ending a relationship with a kid takes time and if you dont give him the time to get used to not being with his girl and his kid then he might just go crazy on someone...i believe that she should be the one to tell him who she is seeing when she is ready...you interfering might cause him to take it out on her...you dont want that if you really like/love this girl...and i wish you luck later
2007-02-05 15:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run. She's just getting out of a relationship and probably just looking for a rebound. Plus the baby's daddy sounds like some trouble.
2007-02-05 15:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Just D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know that you would be there for her no matter what happens and make sure you give her as much of your support as you can . Keep in mind she will need help with the kid she has and it will take a lot of her time and attention to keep the kid safe
2007-02-05 15:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by jenapher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Critical situation for you!! You could be her next true love, but in actuality, your probably being used as her excuse or power to leave source...either way you are the "rebound" If you're cool with that, then go for it. Careful about being someone's life raft man!
2007-02-05 15:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to take her time. You probably shouldn't be dating her if she's "in the middle" of ending a relationship. If you're meant to date then both of you will wait it out.
2007-02-05 15:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Student12345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Avoid getting involved with the ex....
If things get worse and he keeps bothering her, she may need to obtain a legal restraining order against him. Good luck to both of you.
2007-02-05 15:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by angels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first, if you really like her, make sure you know how to fight or help her get a restraining order on him. Then just keep doing things like you are and make sure to protect her n her kid, that'd mean the most to her.
2007-02-05 15:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by hottsk8rboy16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from both of them. He is crazy and she obviously doesn't care about having kids out of wedlock which means she doesn't care about sabatoging your protection. You will probably end up her list of baby's dads.
2007-02-05 15:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by Relax Guy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she married to him? If so, do not see her until she gets a divorce. If she is not married to him then continue to see her unless you feel that he is a threat to your safety.
2007-02-05 15:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋