i told him that i had a crush on him now he doesnt talk to me or write back when i give him letters. So i don'T know what to do im a shy person and i can't confront him at the moment so thats why i write him letter!! help plzzzzzzz
2007-02-05 06:36:13 · 6 answers · asked by {~~~} LUV YA ALWAYZ & $ EVA{~~~} 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not responding because he probably likes you too but somehow he is more shyer than you. Especially if it will be his first relationship. Don't write him anymore letters, just keep talking to him until he responds and let things play out for itself.
He's gona have to answer you sooner or later.
Good luck!!
2007-02-05 06:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by bootygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, maybe you should give it a little bit of time since it might take a bit to send and receive letters. And then when you waited for a while and he STILL hasnt responded then I'd go out and find a new man.or you could wait untill you CAN talk to him then ask him if he had received the letters, and if so why no reply??
2007-02-05 06:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by hiiiiiiii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case, you did what you thought was right for you by letting him know your feelings. If he's not responding to anything you're doing, then let it be. You may have scared him off and that happenes to lots of people. Don't write or call or try to get his attention. If he doesn't get in contact with you; let him be =) That's very hard to do, and I've been through it myslef, but I look at it as; "why try to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me" ??It's not a mean way of looking at yourself or anything, actually it shows you YOU can do better =)
2007-02-05 06:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not responding, then you need to face the possibility that he isn't interested. Just stop persuing him, you done your part, now it's up to him to respond. If he keeps ignoring/not responding then he's a jerk and your better off without him. Even if he's not interested he should tell you that.
2007-02-05 06:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just forget it for now wait a while let things cool down then go and talk to him maybe he is still stunned that you like him just wait maybe things will work out then or have a friend call if your that worried and see wat he says
2007-02-05 06:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by j_breezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer sex, if he refuses sex it was never ment to be
2007-02-05 06:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by burning_on_the_angry_chair 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋