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2007-02-05 06:20:01 · 17 answers · asked by justin g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked a question similar to this, and I got a lot of people who gave the "buy a car without test driving it" reason. I disagree. You do not get into a relationship for sex. The purpose of a relationship, for me anyways, is to find someone you connect with emotionally. You buy a car to drive it...that is it's function. Dating, in my mind, is test driving the car, to see if you want to invest your time and emotions into a marriage. Sex is not the main reason for a relationship, at least not a strong, long lasting one.
2007-02-05 06:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,sex is not important before marriage .I've always said why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? I was in a three year relationship with my boyfriend.He was in the Marines at the time ,so the average person would assume that when he would come down we would have alot of sex ,but we didn't never!And now that three year relationship has turned into a marriage.And I am so glad i was able to share that intimate boding with my husband .Some people would say it doesn't matter but it makes a big differences and I'm glad i waited for my husband.
2016-05-24 18:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and your partner are both consenting adults who have no hang ups about premarital sex then yes it is important. Since the people in this case are already sexual and presumably like it - it is another great way to see if your compatable.
The problems come into play when your whole relationship winds up being about sex. But if it is just a part of the overal getting to know and love each other process it can be very important.
2007-02-05 06:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only things that are important are love and respect. Why don't you check out statistics on marriage. Divorce is HIGHEST among couples who live together before marriage. Divorce is LOWEST among couples who had their first sexual experience on their honeymoon. You will get stupid advice from people (mostly guys) who compare love with driving a car and that truly explains how they would treat a woman - like a car (drive it hard, then trade it in for a new model). When LOVE is deep and true, then the passion intensifies and the sex is good. You can get counselling from a therapist if a sexual relationship seems less than perfect and then proceed to a long happy marriage . You can get sexually transmitted diseases, cervical cancer and emotional fractures from multiple sex partners. You can live long and love deeply when you care and respect your commitment partner. You can DIE from HIV and cancer.
2007-02-05 06:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make sex one of the more important parts of a relationship then it is doomed to end. Sex is a benefit between two people who love each other. Some like doing it alot some don't. So making it a crucial part isn't a good thing cause peoples appetites for sex change
2007-02-05 06:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, Ok, I have to honest here and say, that in this day and age it SEEMS to be, but in reality it should NOT be.... and as for the person who ask, * would you buy a car before test driving?*... at my age, 48, I have heard remarks such as that since I was 15,and to them all I say * BULL *.. we are people NOT machines !!! So I turn the tables and ask this * Is sex, before marriage WORTH the risk ?*.. with all that is going on in this world, sickness, teen pregnancies, etc., is it worth paying the price with your LIFE ?? Sex was and is meant as a gift given to that ONE special person whom you pledge your life to... I will NOT appologise for saying that !!!!!!!! There is just to much , with sex, that is involved, such as mental, physical, emotional, etc., that those who are NOT ready can do more damage to themselves than they realize........ God bless
2007-02-05 06:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you want sex to be important after you are married. If you never try and find out what it is all about you may end up with some one who has completely different ideas than you and then you are stuck. Check it out first.
2007-02-05 06:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly sex isnt the important thing in a relationship.you should not be in a relationship for the sex it should just be an extra thing if yuor ready to have it.
2007-02-05 06:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by xxrlhoodratxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no no no no there is so much more to a real relationship than sex. save yourself for that special person. when you are ready to give your soul to someone sex doesn't really matter, don't get me wrong sex is great and all put there is so much more
2007-02-05 06:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by janiebug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because you are not supposed to have sex before marriage...shool?
2007-02-05 06:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋