i had a baby boy. my boyfriend really treated me bad and got on drugs really bad. he went to jail hes been in jail for almost a year now hes at rehab and hes getting out in july and ive fallen in love with someone else, he also use to hit me, but i still kinda love him what do i do?
2007-02-05 05:55:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a hammer and beat your face repeatedly with it. Then look in the mirror and ask yourself if you want your baby to look like that.
And if your new love is a nice guy, stay away from him. He doesn't need a headache like you.
2007-02-05 06:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is such a shame that such stupid people manage to breed and have babies! You had an illegitimate baby from the sperm of a druggie who can't support anyone-not even himself-who has a criminal record and will now never get a good job. Chances are slim to none that you'll get child support. You haven't been together for almost a year and you "kinda" love him. You're a single mother/loser who has already fallen for someone else and are probably sleeping with him, too. Right? Maybe it's time you kept you legs closed, stood up straight and took care of your child instead of just mooning around guys! Get off the internet and get a job. Raise a kid on social services/welfare and you have a 75% chance of having the kid be on welfare and be a school dropout. Is that what you want? If it is, then you're a loser mother!!
2007-02-05 14:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you love someone that abused you and disrespected you? Well... I know it's possible but remember that you're stronger than that. It seems like you're getting a second chance at life so don't let it waste away. Don't let your ex- or boyfriend manipulate you and don't show him you miss him or want him back or anything of that sort. Also, remember your life is not yours alone, you have your baby. You have to be a role model and set a caring, safe, and loving enviroment for him.
My heart goes out to you! Good luck!
2007-02-05 14:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I apologize in advance for this but WTF is wrong with you.
You have a son who needs someone with their head on straight. You want to know what to do. Put your son up for adoption and go back to the drug addicted guy who beat you. But have your tubes tied first so you don't get pregnant again.
You better get straightened out fast. Decide what you want then take the steps necessary to get it. You are a mother and hopefully an adult. It really is time to wake up.
2007-02-05 14:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope you're getting child support. if not go to court and sue for fully custody. you need to put your kid first. do you really want your child around a person like that, and besides it seems like you've moved on anyway
2007-02-05 13:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by shiara_blade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD STAY WITH THE GUY THAT YOU ARE WITH NOW ..HEY , THE OLD BF IN JAIL , WILL NEVER CHANGE ..GOD BLESS YOU!
2007-02-05 14:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋