Okay, so lost. I really liked this guy, and he said he liked me. Then we kept talking, and one thing led to another (not like that). But then he asked me to have sex. I'm 15, and I really like him. But he was saying all this stuff, that made me want him even more. But we don't talk at school, like ever. But I still like him. What to do?
2007-02-05 05:50:28 · 30 answers · asked by rae. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your dad that a boy at school wants you to have sex and that you like him.
2007-02-05 05:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, probaby not what you want to hear, but you are way too young to have sex with someone. First of all, there are soooo many diseases out there that you could catch....sometimes even if you are careful. Secondly, what if you get pregnant? No birth control is 100% effective except for abstinence. And last, having sex with someone is what you do when you are committed to someone, like in a marriage or even a long term relationship when you are older. This is a bad situation. If you think you can still be friends or date without the sex, then you can try to still hang out. But if you think "one thing will lead to another" and you will end up having sex with this guy, it is time to put space between you. Teenage guys are not ready to commit to a girl, no matter what they say. I am not putting them down when I say that, it is just a fact.
2007-02-05 05:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by KGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him. 15 is too young. Yeah, I know everyone is doing it. It isn't everything they make it out to be. My son is 16, he dates a girl, they have the same outlook on the subject. They have waited 16 years to try it what is a few more? Both of them are willing to wait for the right person. A friend of mine her son is in college he was 15 his first time. He says now he wishes he would of waited longer. Guys have a way of talking and making us want it. I was in the same boat. It wasn't all that. Why don't you talk to each other at school? But he will talk to you after, I am guessing when the friends are not around? You don't want to be another number to him. Think about it long before you do it.
2007-02-05 05:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that if he's not talking to you in school, then he was only after one thing. As soon as he gets it, he will be on his way to his next victim. You're 15 years old and have a long life ahead of you. Believe me, there are a lot of guys you are going to see that will turn your head and make you want them more than this guy who won't even give you the time of day in school. I know it's easier said than done, but walk away. He's going to use you and hurt your feelings.
2007-02-05 05:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by sher2003bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that having sex with him is going to make him like you more and talk to you in school, you are very wrong my dear! Your reputation will be ruined and all the other guys will know that all they have to do is sweet talk you and you will put out. You are only 15. Don't worry about stuff like that right now, it's not worth it. Just enjoy your friends!
2007-02-05 05:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what he wants....SEX! Don't ignore the clues on the wall right in front of you, honey! If he really likes you the way he says then he will have the desire to even do something a little important like...talk to you WHENEVER he sees you whether it is at school, the grocery store....
Let him get it from another girl.
2007-02-05 05:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by theplanningdiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt have sex with him at all-not yet anyways.you need to develop a relationship at school and hang out for awhile first.your only 15 and there will be a lot of guys and if you dont even have a relationship with this one and he doesnt even talk to you-hes not the right one yet.wait for awhile and see where things go.
2007-02-05 05:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by xsecretxowishesx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy shouldn't be worth your tears sweetie. The guy apparently just wants to have sex. Otherwise, he'd be talking to you on a regular basis about every other topic in any dictionary. I'd be around in case he does something stupid, but I wouldn't date him. Not just yet anyway.
You need to focus on everything else anyway like a good education anyway. You can have your family at anytime. Just live a little more.
2007-02-05 05:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by padiwan2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! If he cared about you he'd want everyone to know. Do not give up the most prized thing you have to someone who won't even talk to you in public. Plus, 15 is too young to have sex. You'll be fine without him. Liking someone doesn't mean you sleep with them.
2007-02-05 05:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by confuzed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt really like you. He was probably just a smoothtalker. A good thing to do is to ask guys questions when they say sweet things. Just because they talk one way doesnt mean they can back up the talk with how they act. Stay within your age range because that way you wont have to drive all over to see them.
2007-02-05 05:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by mps810 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Slow down... there should be a red flag if he doesn't pay attention to you at school but wants to get into your pants. If you want a relationship with this individual I would make sure that he is interested in YOU, not just your goods. Do things with him - like go to the movies, on a date, etc... make sure that he has to put some effort into being with you.
2007-02-05 05:56:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋