It seems like the same type of guys always approach me. What can I do to change this? I'm a classy girl, but I keep getting the same sleazy and commit a phobic types.
2007-02-05 05:49:14 · 13 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't stop those guys from approaching you. But you CAN choose not to deal with them, especially since you recognize a character in them that you are not content with.
You and ONLY you have the power to decide what you like, and to go for it. If there is a problem in the men that approach you, why don't you approach the ones that you do have some interest in. There's nothing wrong with that at all. Don't let the old fashioned folks tell you that a woman doesn't approach a man. Bull. You've followed that rule, and have gotten guys that do not interest you. Time to change the rules.
2007-02-05 05:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rugah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start approaching guys you like instead of waiting for a guy to approach you.
This way you will always end up on a date with a guy you like.
Not every guy you like will say 'yes' to you. But if you approach enough guys, then you are bound to meet someone who likes you just as much as you like him.
2007-02-05 13:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to my dance class and meet me! And if you don't like me there are all types of guys there from sleezeballs (who we all really try to get rid of) to the really nice wholesome guys (who we... uh... also try to get rid of. LOL Can't have the "good" guys hogging all of the girls. LOL)
You can really tell what kind of a person is by dancing with them. If he's a creep he will treat you creepy. If he's a gentleman, then his dance will be all about you.
2007-02-05 13:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep using the same ingriedients in the same amounts, why would the cake come out any different.
Try to pay closer attention to how you present & represent yourself.
2007-02-05 13:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because they approach you and ask you out, doesn't mean you have to accept. It's not the guys fault, when you're the one doing the accepting!
2007-02-05 13:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Huera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not as classy as you think. Try changing your dress sense a little, and if you wear make-up wear less.
2007-02-05 13:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by YT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start approaching different guys.
2007-02-05 13:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you don't notice the nice guy sitting back a little bit, who was looking your way and wants to talk to you, but is shy, and also can't because all the sleezy and "commit-phob" guys got to you first.
2007-02-05 13:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jason 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your pattern hasnt changed! Mix it up a bit!
2007-02-05 13:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by mps810 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go out and meet new people go to different places.
2007-02-05 13:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋