Boyfriend does not want me to come to his birthday celebration with his family and suggested that we do something during the weekend. I have been with them many many times before holiday etc. ect. so I don't understand. The other day he also pointed out that I wear a weave and I told him because my hair fell out and he also wanted to know why I had acne on my skin too. I saw on his computer where he read an article on 'how to break up with a girl". But everyone keeps telling me it is nothing to worry about and that he really cares about me. He acts likes he cares for me, takes me places I need to go etc. etc. He also has been trying to encourage me to work out as I have gained weight, but I dont look bad I am a model for FORD models, so I am not ugly.
What can you tell me about this situation objectivly? He knows that I was cheated on in my last relationship and how bad it hurt me but he keeps telling me that I am paranoid.
2007-02-05 05:48:23 · 6 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes i think he wants to break up with u but he's afraid to because of what u went through in ur previous relationship, & doesn't want to hurt ur feelings.
2007-02-05 05:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Serena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him completely alone and if he asks why tell him because you are really hurt to not be invited to his family party. Get a backbone and stick up for yourself. He will respect that. Never let a person put you down, it sounds like he is trying to make you break up with him so he can be the good guy. Give him the cold shoulder, if he loves you, he'll be back.
2007-02-05 05:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by confuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing have you talk to him how you felt when he say that you need to lose weight, even though you know that you are not ugly and look fine? And have you talked to him about his personal life, like his family, getting involve with the deeper stuff? Some guys are a little iffy about that stuff sometimes, you just have to talk to him about it. If he doesn't communicate too well, well you know what to do next, eh?
2007-02-05 06:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by gc1j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to stay with him? He is pointing out things he sees as physical flaws and I'm sure that can't feel good. Break it off yourself, say you need a break. Find someone who makes you feel special regardless of if you put on a few pounds.
2007-02-05 06:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by akivi73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not attracted to you-- he's pointing out all of these flaws. Get a clue...Why are you even bothering with a relationship like this? He probably doesn't want you around because he's sick of you but he's trying to let you down easy
2007-02-05 05:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is not that into you anymore... just breat it up... if u don't, he will.
2007-02-05 05:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋