that you liked his brother before you liked him? I like this guy and there is a chance we might go out, however, I used to like his brother a couple of months ago until this other guy got me crazy for him. I flirted a bit with his brother and even though I know he knew me and his brother would talk a lot, I don't know if he knew I would flirt but it is most likely he did. I don't like his brother anymore and I'm sure that he only sees me as a friend as well. I believe that the truth is always better but I don't want this to affect the relationship. Do you think he would hate me for that?
2007-02-05 05:42:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the past is past. still i dont think you should tell him, it might make things akward. i know its different but its like how i used to be completly in love with my best friends brother about 2 years ago and i still havent gotten around to telling her. maybe waaaaay later when you guys are married or something you can bring it up as a joke like : "can u believe i used to like your brother before?!" (hahahaha) ....get it? good luck!
2007-02-05 06:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you dont feel the same way for his brother as you used to, dont bring it up.
It only cause problems in the relationship because he wont feel comfortable having his brother and you in the same room together. He'll feel wierd and will probably even develope insecurities if hes always thought his bro was better than him with woman.
Dont bring it up.
2007-02-05 13:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him but also tell him that you wanted to get to him!! That will boost his ego and its half the truth! If you tell him you liked his brother first he is never gonna trust you and his brother together in the same room
2007-02-05 13:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by Christi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell him, especially if you want to be with him and not his brother now. That would cause a whole lot of unecessary tension between the three of you.
2007-02-05 13:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by boog_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being completely honest with a person is a nice sentiment, but it leads to a lot of hurt if people take things wrong and personally. i don't see any harm with not telling him, and it's probably for the best
2007-02-05 13:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by shiara_blade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you know you like this guy, and want to be in a relationship with him, dont say anything because he will hold it againt you and just accuse you of cheating on him wiht his brother and things would just be a disaster, its just a guy thing, keep your secret your secret.
2007-02-05 13:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be crazy to tell him, keep it to yourself.
2007-02-05 13:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋