How can I get a boyfriend who isn't a player?

Answer 1

Find a nerd, geek or woman.

Answer 2

Thats a tough question to answer because theres so many out there. One thing you should try is if you are out looking to get a boyfriend just because you want to have a relationship, try waiting.. dont go chasing just because you may not like being single, let it happen and come to you; be patient and wait for the right guy. Looks also can be deceiving, so don't be too picky, the better the inner qualities are, the better he will look to you in both your eyes and heart. Im not saying theres no good looking men out there that don't play games, but usually they're the ones with the egos and figure their good looks can win over any girl. Also get to know the people you date before you date them, see what they're like, and if they really seem interested in you. Spend some time with them too, go places with them, bond with them, the way they will talk to you or act or things they want to do will tell you who they really are. I wish I could give more advice, but Im a guy myself; lol im also not a player but im not too sure how my girlfriend found me ;-) hehe, hope any of this helps :-/

Answer 3

Sounds like you've come across quite a few players - I'd start by taking a look at what kind of guy you go after, and where you usually meet them. Might want to talk a walk "off the beaten path" and see if you can find a guy outside your normal "hunting grounds" and social circles.

Chances are, if you meet your guy at clubs, bars, or large social events - and you keep looking there - you'll just get more of the same.

There's no magic answer to this one - so I wish you good luck in your hunt! :-)

Answer 4

Get a guy who is not as desirable as you are. Men are basically as faithful as their options. If you're a dime piece, get a guy who is not so hot, and he will be very loyal to you because he'd have a real hard time getting anything better. I've been on both ends of this scheme and I know that the more desirable person has the power when it comes to faithfulness and loyalty.

Answer 5

You can get a normal boyfriend by going out and meeting people who dont always think they are on a fashion parade.
By getting to know the person rather than their looks.

Answer 6

I assume most of your previous boyfriends were players? I would try to date the EXACT opposite of what yo have been dating. Look for nice guys.....they are out there.

Answer 7

We get what we look for. Don't date known "players." Only date guys who seem to be in longer relationships. They are out there.

Answer 8

Get picky! Get to know the guy before you date! My husband and I were friends for a year before we dated. He is the best guy I have ever had! Also I find you should see how a guy treats his mom before you date if he isn't good to her then dump him, because he won't be good to you! Also make sure he isn't a mama's boy!

Answer 9

there is no right answer to that, u can always find a guy that will not play u but sometimes its really up to they way u are with a guy to make sure he doesn't want to mess around on you... if u go for someone that u already know has played around with his ex's or someone who is very secreative than that is how u know not to talk to someone who has a player card!!

Answer 10

Think about something you like to do on your spare time...for example...you like to go bowling..find a cute guy who likes to bowl there...players are the ones you will meet at bars and clubs..

Answer 11

A respectful guy is pretty easy to spot. The "hey baby" types are not going to be there for you. Also look at his track record... Once a dog, always a dog.