2007-02-05 05:38:42 · 25 answers · asked by vdewal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for the heart. Be honest sincere and tell her how you feel find out what interests her and think of something thoughtful to do for her. Remember, if you go out on a limb for a girl and she doesn't have the sense to realize that you are doing something special for her than she isn't worth your time. You have to choose your timing though you don't want her to think that you are going to be throwing yourself at her feet. People don't want someone that is so easy to get.
2007-02-05 05:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by thexgodfatherx69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all shes into is money then you're with the wrong person. Those kind of people only see value in others depending on their monetary worth. Find someone not so materialistic, cause you're in for a whole lota trouble and pain with someone like that.
Also from the sounds of you; you and your girlfriend are both young, so its not her that's rich, its her parents. Shes going to have a harsh reality call when she gets older and realizes Mommy and Daddy's money isn't going to be there for her to spend all the time. Unfortunately people like that usually end up marrying someone just for their money.
Don't waste your time trying to impress her, people like that will never be satisfied and will always ask or expect more and more. Move on and ditch this chick, you'll be better off in the long run!
2007-02-05 13:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by West_End_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money can't buy love. As long as you have a job and you are trying your best. Don't try to live above your means. Not to impress some girl. If she loves you...it should be for you...not your money. You can show her in so many ways without spending a dime that you care about her and love her. Write her a poem or a song. Go for a hike and pick her flowers. When you are watching TV together...rub her feet or give her a head massage. Run her a bubble bath when you know she has had a long day. I know all of these things might sound corney...but all of the above have been done for me and I married the man who showed me he loved me.
2007-02-05 13:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Michele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being rich is really not about having a lot of money. Being rich is inside, in your heart. If she understand these terms, you will not need much to impress her if you really love her. If she turns away because as you say you are "poor", no matter how much money she has, she will never be rich.
2007-02-05 13:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by BT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's so many things you guys can do that doesn't require spending a lot of money. save up some cash for a night out. maybe go to dinner at a nice restaurant. and take a walk in the park. that will give you both some time to talk and get to know each other. she
'll start to see you for who you are on the inside, and money and things like that will fade away in importance to her, and if not, she's not the girl for you anyway.
2007-02-05 13:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to get her to go out with you or is she already your girlfriend? I don't imagine money is important to her as far as picking a mate since she has it, but you never know. So, since you don't have money don't try to buy her anything, make her something, have romantic details, like write her a poem, draw her something- I loved what my now hubby did once in a letter- on one page he wrote- I love you, I miss you, all throughout the page and even though it was something so simple I loved it. Cook her something, be caring, sweet & thoughtful. If you're funny that's a plus.
2007-02-05 13:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is not everything just treat her good and love her for who she is not her bank balance!!! Treat her good and never lie about youre true feelings!! But dont let money get in the way of love and if she does something you dont like tell her then she will see youre not just after her money and she will respect you for that be straight forward
2007-02-05 13:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Christi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to impress her if she really loves you...for you. As the old saying goes, money can't buy everything.
2007-02-05 13:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cause she's rich, doesn't mean she's money minded or materialistic. If she is, don't try to impress her, nothing will ever be enough.
2007-02-05 13:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be tough. When you say "money minded" what do you mean? She thinks about her financial security for the future or just likes to buy nice things and wants her man to buy them for her?
2007-02-05 13:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋