we just started dating, and he is way too sexual. how can i tell him that i want to slow things down? i don't want to push him away... help??
2007-02-05 05:34:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to treat you with some respect. If he doesn't, get rid of him. He doesn't sound like he cares about you; he sounds like your typical horny guy looking for a sperm recepticle. Tell the freak, you're not it!
2007-02-05 05:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to push him away then you need to give him at least some of what he wants.
I suggest that you set limits for him, such as he can touch there, but not here. He can sneak his hand inside your blouse but he can't unzip your pants.
When there is a disagreement in a relationship, then a compromise that accomodates both is what works best.
If you try to have your way with him completely, then you will push him away.
2007-02-05 05:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that you love him very much but that he needs to slow things down a tad.
2007-02-05 05:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mine is the same way-it drove me nuts. finally i talked to him and just told him that it was way to much.several times a day and for hrs at a time-way to much. i told him that i loved him dearly and i enjoy making love but it is just to much for me-and explain why-and how it makes you feel.my man was hurt at first thought that i didnt want him sexually but i assured him it wasnt that at all. after i explained to him how i felt and how sore i would be he tappered off-so just talk to him- communication is very important-talk about everything-that is the key to a good relationship. good luck
2007-02-05 05:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by terry t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as to sexual. You have to remember your relationship is still new, and as we all know things eventually slow down. enjoy it while you got it honey.
2007-02-05 05:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry - sounds like he is not the right guy for you. You can't change the way he is just by telling him it's not right for you.
2007-02-05 05:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to sit and talk on how you want things is always good to talk
2007-02-05 05:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Dutchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't win. Either give in or he's going to find someone else to fulfill his needs.
2007-02-05 05:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i never heard a girl say shes getting it to much....lol
2007-02-05 05:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
or send him to me we could swap!
2007-02-05 05:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋