"Your" meaning you and your groom....
2007-02-05 05:32:15 · 12 answers · asked by eyes2blvd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
By the way its a female.
2007-02-05 06:21:21 · update #1
My groom used to have a female friend that hated my guts. It caused a rift between them, and they no longer speak. So no, she wasn't invited to the wedding.
But remember that the wedding is for people to celebrate your marriage. Your guests are supposed to be those people who mean something to you. If this gal hates the bride's guts, then she is most definately not celebrating the marriage. In fact, I'd be worried that she'd speak up during that "Speak now or forever hold your piece" part (which, by the way, immediately ends the ceremony if someone speaks up).
2007-02-05 07:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your wedding and you should invite whoever you like. If she doesnt agree with the wedding then why should she be there! You are not in the wrong here but then again she is your fiance's sister and you cant change that. Just try and be a better person and show her that you dont care about her hate campaign.
2016-05-24 18:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Evelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the groom want him there? If your hubby to be wants him there, then he should be invited, it's not just "your" wedding, it's his as well, and he should have his friends there to support him. Be polite to him, but you don't have to spend all evening with the guy, as a matter of fact, all you'll have to do is say "thank you for coming" as he passes through the receiving line, and that's assuming you even do that.
2007-02-05 06:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through this. And my husbands best friend was in our wedding party...I don't like him and he doesn't like me. It was awkward...but it was only for one day. You put you differences aside. Tell your husband to talk to this person and ask him for one day to put aside his/her differences and enjoy the day. And that this person should be happy for him. That's what my now husband did and the day was fine. Everyone had a great time and me and his best friend even had fun together. I still don't like him much and I'm sure the feeling is the same for him - but I dislike him less now. He's my husbands best friend...what could I do?
2007-02-05 05:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by Michele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your hubby to be, and if he wants to invite him do it, its one day, when your talking to your hubby let him know its up to him your willing to suck it up for a day as long as his friend isnt going to act out or anything. Its a hard one but together as a team you can decide on the right thing to do! Good luck!
2007-02-05 06:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close your man is to him........if it's not that important for him to be there, then I'd say no, it's supposed to be your day without drama, and why have someone there who hates your guts?
2007-02-05 05:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Elsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THREE IDEAS:
Ask your man what he thinks, say your going to invite him but he doesn't like me at all what does he think?
Invite him, your going to be way too busy to even acknowledge his presence!
Or invite him, and maybe he hates you so much he won't even show!
2007-02-05 05:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, the wedding isnt only about you, its about your fiance too. He should have who he wants there just as you should have who you want.
Men arent dramatic, he wouldnt cause a scene, you needn't worry about that.
2007-02-05 05:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave it up to the groom.
2007-02-05 06:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably let your FI invite him whether it be verbal or hand delivered.
2007-02-05 05:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by theplanningdiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋