My friend started dating this chick, and well i barely met her, and well the attraction between her and I grew instantly, she calls me on my cell phone asking me to go see her, i have gone, but we havent done anything, but im afraid that eventually something will happen and will end up hurting my friend and causing them to break up, not to mention he'll probably hate me, but what do i do, i really want her, i really like and wanna be with her, just dont wanna hurt anybody
2007-02-05 05:30:07 · 9 answers · asked by Rey M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u have a feeling then dont go... be a true friend and doing that is breaking the code. U should never hang out with ur friend's GF if u guys havent been friends b4.
2007-02-05 05:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and your friend's g/f should sit down and tell your friend how you both feel. If he truly cares for her, he will just want her to be happy. He will probably respect the fact that you came to him about the situation like a man. Don't continue to see her behind your friend's back. You both may do something devasting to your friend and scar his heart forever. You can't stop love so, all 3 of you get together and tell each other what's going on before you're in too deep.
2007-02-05 05:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by da_real_one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not worth wrecking the friendship! Isn't there a saying "Bro's before Ho's"??? Play the part of your friend for a minute. How would you feel?
Do what you want, but I know it's just not worth it in the long run. She'll do the same thing to you!
2007-02-05 05:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by kebbs32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked your friend if he's interested in her? Could be you could have a chance with her if he's only got an "attraction" thing, and you would be clearing the field for yourself...depends on what kind of friend he is.
2007-02-05 05:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your friends girl, don't even go there. if u don't want to hurt him, don't do it. wait till they break up and theres your chance. she is a cheater if she is with your friend, is she will cheat with u on him, she will also cheat on u with him. that is just who she is, is all this worth your friendship? she has an agenda, and it isn't anything but lust.
2007-02-05 05:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a real man and say no, dont take your friends chick, there are billions more women in the world. dont be an *** and keep you hands and hyperactive penis to yourself and be a real friend.
2007-02-05 05:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by go away 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm. Interesting situation. If its ment to be then, she may be with you if, your friend can't get it right.
2007-02-05 05:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Legsology07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her don't go see her run from her
2007-02-05 05:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her that if she wants to be with you then she needs to dump your friend. simple as that. you need to refuse to go anywhere with her if she is with HIM she obviously is just using you
2007-02-05 05:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋