well, i hate it when all the attention is on me, so when he is looking at me i cant look back at him :( i just start talking about stupid things or laugh for no reason.... i want to kiss him:) but i get to nerveus... How do i get over it??? i told him to just suprise me and kiss me... dont know wheter thats a good idea:(
can anyone help me? please :)
2007-02-05 05:29:39 · 29 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then you are way too young to have a boyfriend.
2007-02-05 05:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
The first guy I kissed I must have laughed 20 times before we finally did...there was to much pressure put on the kissing act and it made me nervous so I would laugh (he got so mad). I think the secret is to not think about it. When the moment arises just do it and dont' think about it, after the first time it should be easier.... Surprise kissing usually ends up in someone getting hurt....ex. if the other person turns their head then you smash into the back of their head - ouch... When you think you are ready then just lay it on him...after that you won't know why we even had this conversation....good luck
2007-02-05 13:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by shadows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your simply just not ready, dont rush into things! if he truly likes you he'll wait till your ready, you want the first kiss to be right and enjoyable and if your not ready (or if he just pounces on you) it might not b the best idea..
you need to get more comfortable around him first, so just spend some you and him time in privacy, and talk about all sorts of things so that you truly know each other! and then it will happen naturally when you catch his eye and have the chemistry!
dont laugh in his face.. that might make him feel like hes done something wrong and affect his self esteem..
and remember the attentions not all on you, its on him as well 50/50 so stop worrying so much!
just when you finally catch his eye, just move 50% in the when hes moving towards you lean your head to the right, slowly close your eyes and puker them lips up lol! and enjoy =D
2007-02-05 13:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The surprise kiss is a great idea! It is a sound plan. I think after you get over the first kiss, you'll be fine with it, in fact I think you'll go hog wild over it and you might not be able to keep your lips off him.
Sounds like fun, have a great time.
2007-02-05 15:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um - Wait til you get married. If it isn't coming natural, there is a reason. You sound super young, you aren't ready to be married yet, so what are you doing? I used to try to have a boyfriend when I was a kid and I had the same experience you describe. It is because you're too young. I totally know where you're at. Talk to your parents, ask them about what they think about you dating and kissing and all that.
2007-02-05 13:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The surprise kiss is a good idea, a very good idea indeed, because when it happens its virtually too late to back out.
2007-02-05 13:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by #1hotgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heya dahlin! omg, that is exactly the same as me! i always used to move away, or tell him i didnt want him to, when actually i craved to kiss him. i have felt awful evrsince.
so my advice is...
accept that you are the best thing in this guys life atm and make sure you are ready or else you may be scared of kissing again after that!!!
2007-02-05 13:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by sweetmango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was exactly like you before I had my first kiss. Just suck it up and do it. You know you want to! Once you get pass his first kiss (which will probably be on fire!), all the rest will be even more WONDERFUL!
2007-02-05 13:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by da_real_one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way untill i got the guts to do it wat i did was hold mii breath 4 a lil while think about all the fun times and wrap mii arms around his neck then just go in 4 the kiss u have to do it a couple of time or just keep talkin bout cute stuff and kiss him it's fun lol
2007-02-05 13:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by sparks3192 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help you in what?
It's okay let him surprise you... it's just a kiss after all.
If it's about his body odour or the way his mouth smells then be straight and tell him he needs a mouth wash or a freshner...
2007-02-05 13:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by sha m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think that other guys don't do the first move they expect their girls to do it and this guy is being really patient with you when he tries to kiss you go with his flow act like you been kissing him for a while
2007-02-05 13:34:11 · answer #11 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋