Back in september i met this girl that i later started going out with. Now we started being really great friends and talking bout a relationship. After two date and a few outtings she called it off. I got so into her that i had a hard time letting to. I was texting her asking for another change and talking to her on myspace and IM. She now banned me from seeing her profile but she didn't kick me off her list. She called me a stalker cause i didn't leave he alone. Now i feel really bad cause i didn't want this to happen i was just to involved. Help!
2007-02-05 04:24:58 · 10 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dewd. I know it sucks when we want someone and they don't want us back. But the more you push and bug, the more you alienate homegirl. All you do is appear weak to her, and chicks don't dig that, for sure.
2007-02-05 04:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jim W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you got hit with the 'stalker' label! That freakin' sucks. I had a girl do it to me back in the day and all I did was call her back after we had been broken up for 3 weeks. I just called to see how she's doing and if she was going to go to my fiends party (if she was going I was not sort of thing) And she said I was stalking her and to leave her alone. I was shocked.
This seems to be the same case with you. Basically she's just going to the extreme so you don't talk to her. It's probably based on her insecurity as a female. She dosen't know how to react to a person she liked (maybe even still likes) that didn't work out and she doesn't want to be caught in an awkward moment with you. This way she scares you off and you won't call and she won't have to deal with you, the situation or herself.
Don't worry about, don't call her, leave her alone - she's mental. Good luck with other more stable women.
2007-02-05 04:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by TexasLSUTiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you, but nothing turns a girl off more than a clingy guy. If she's not interested, then she's not interested... and there's nothing you can do about it.
Respect the girl and leave her alone.
It might be hard, and it might hurt, but you need to move on. If you keep dragging it out, you're just making things harder on yourself and could possibly force her to cut ALL ties with you.
Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Good luck!
2007-02-05 04:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by violetmal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they tell you its over, its over. Take the girls word for it. If she had made a mistake she would come back to you and let you know.
Youre intentions might have been good but you creeped her out. Now you have no chance at all. And the bad thing is she will probably spread around town to other girls not to go out with you because you are possessive.
2007-02-05 04:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. People use that term way to loosely.Just move on with your life and don't contact her anymore.So,she called you a stalker.You know what and who you are.She obviously doesn't know you that well then.I think some women love to use the term stalker because it makes them feel like they are special or something.Like a guy can't live without them.It feeds their ego. It's quite sick actually.Just move on with your life.
2007-02-05 04:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem. You really didn't have a relationship but you kept trying to have one even though you knew she wasn't interested. She is right. You should have left her alone. Learn from this experience and don't behave that way alone. No means NO.
2007-02-05 04:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone you pushed to much and now look where it has gotten you. No where. Just don't talk to her and if she chooses to talk to you then talk if not leave things be.
2007-02-05 04:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never contact her again. apparently she is not interested. Find the next victim and dont get attached as fast.
2007-02-05 04:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by bgsfnstldy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her alone.
2007-02-05 04:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by Legsology07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time, if she will give you another chance it will come up eventually, otherwise, move on.
2007-02-05 04:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋