my boyfriend and i have been together 1 year and 3 months and were not really affectionate. we hardly hold hands anymore and we dont really kiss and he doesnt tell me things ok he doesnt tell me anythin...i feel like somethin is goin on he says he will never leave me hes never cheated on me. im his girlfriend he should want to kiss me and hold my hand and things like that...and he should tell me things....he kisses my forehead which i think is really cute. when we first started dating thats like all we did like we couldnt even walk cause wed always be messin around...i told him bouta week ago that things have changed and hhe knows his to....and thats one of the things...how do i tell him without sounding rude that i want to be more affectionate like we use to. i mean i love him and hes my durn soulmate and stuff...i just want to be more romantic and stuff i mean ima girl and a southern girl at that...
2007-02-05 04:16:52 · 3 answers · asked by christie. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and for this valentines ( this is our second one together) im goin to decorate his room with streamers and blow up balloons and i bought him a big bear and i got some dice with like cute little romantic sayins on them and i got like a sexual type spin the bottle game. but i think i want to do more but i dont know what...what do yall think about this??? is there anything yall would add to this???
2007-02-05 04:19:55 · update #1
im fixin to be 20 and he is 20
2007-02-05 04:24:13 · update #2
Tell him how badly u miss it... may be he does too... if you are his soulmate he should oblige
2007-02-05 04:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my boyfriend a year and 3 months also and we still hold hands. kiss, cuddle and we are really affectionate! it's all about BOTH being affectionate and still doing the things for eachother from before you know, kissing, holding hands all that! it's up to both of you to keep it HOT still! you should talk to him about it and let him know that it's bothering you, that you need to be shown that your being loved. If he shows no effort in making it better after you talk to him then you should move on because it wouldn't work out! you can't or shouldn't even be telling someone to hold you, kiss you! they should do it themselves! that should come natural! as for a valentine idea..here's something I did and it was FUN!!...I did a striptease in cute sexy lingerie, gave him a nice massage and we played after...I decorated the room with lots of rose petals and used alot of candles for a dim lighting! well anyways good luck ;)
2007-02-05 12:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same, I need intamacy and affection. Just tell him that you need that stuff to be happy. I don't know why he would have a problem with kissing you more and touching you more.
Tell him actions speak louder than words.
Good luck. Hope you two have a great v-day together.
2007-02-05 12:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋