2007-02-05 03:49:16 · 23 answers · asked by 2Much4U 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends. Don't be scared to tell a man EXACTLY what you want in bed! Trust me. Most men like this. It may be that he's inexperienced, shy, doesn't know what to do. Be his teacher. How fun! BUT! If you do this and it still ain't happ'nin', RUN FOREST RUN! Shared pleasure with someone you care about is too precious a thing to deprive yourself of!
2007-02-05 03:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jim W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. While I know sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, it is still a big part of it. If you are not happy then it will only cause unneeded stress in your life.
If you are not satisfied, I would ask if you have discussed this with your significant other. If not, then I would suggest you do. If you have, are they willing to change to please you more. If not, then move on. Most things about a person can not be changed, however, I do not believe that sex is one of them. If they truly love you and want both of you to be happy, then they would not mind making changes to that area, who knows they may like it better as well!!
Good Luck!!
2007-02-05 12:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Because that's something that is important to me, and eventually, it will become a larger issue in our marriage.
When I commit I plan to do this for the long haul; for good and for bad, and in sickness and in health..and I plan to take those vows very seriously.
If he can not do it for me, this will cause discourse. I would try to work on that issue prior to marriage.
It may seem shallow, but people have divorced for less. I don't want to be a part of that statistic.
2007-02-05 11:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not! But if you love them enough you can always improve on the lack of bed experience. But that is a risk that you have to take. Sometimes it just doesn't work out! It's up to you, in my opinion sex has its priorities but is not all. But it is important
2007-02-05 11:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't but you need to ask yourself why he's not fulfilling your needs. Do you tell him what you'd like him to do ? Maybe he just needs some direction.
2007-02-05 12:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by pink lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know soley because whether u chose to believe it or not sex is a big part of marriage even when a couple is just dating it's a big part of the relationship unless you can teach him some new techniques to use in bed then i don't know
good luck hon
take care!
2007-02-05 11:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry someone for anything, but if the sex sucks, they're definitely gone. Sex is all I need from a man, anyway.
2007-02-05 13:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get married you need to feel comfortable enough to tell him what you like. If you can't do that then eventually you will not want to have "relations" and your marriage may suffer from it.(or lack of it)
2007-02-05 11:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by Looking to spend some money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea, sex is one the most important things in a relationship, cause if you are not satisfied, you are going to wonder a nd not be faithful, dont do it and dont just think that love can fix it all, cause it might help but if you are not happy then your mariage its not going to be very happy
2007-02-05 11:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether it was a case of not knowing how or not being willing to. If they weren't willing to satisfy me, then, no. I wouldn't. If it's just because they don't know how, then I could teach them.
2007-02-05 12:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by Egghead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋