I'm not, I've tried to discuss this with her, but she does not want to listen. So recently I've been spending time with a old friend from college and she has a great knack for listening. Then last night after the game, we shared a bottle of wine and then it seemed like one thing led to another and we ended up spending a totally unbelivable evening together. Now I'm not sure what I should do...
2007-02-05 03:48:13 · 12 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, I don't condone cheating. It has happened to me, and it is horrible! You need to sit your girlfriend down and tell her straight what is bothering you. Tell her if she doesn't want to listen, than you don't see any other reason to stay in the relationship. Explain to her that you aren't happy, and you need to be happy with someone. Be up front about the old friend because lying never gets you anywhere.
2007-02-05 04:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by hokeygurl019 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not happy in your relationship, you tried talking to her, she won't listen and try.
You cheated. You are obviously unhappy and now have gone elsewhere to find things.
Give her the respect that she deserves. Break it off with her. While she may have been wrong for not listening and trying you were wrong for cheating. She doesnt need to know about the cheating, but you do need to end it with your lady.
2007-02-05 03:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not happy then you need to tell her and end things. Right now if you keep heading down the path that you are on you are only going to wind up hurting her and yourself.
2007-02-05 03:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very hard, instead of talking do the physical thing of leaving, if you are not happy than it is best than living in frustration.
Two people need to be happy in a relationship!
2007-02-05 03:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with your girlfriend and tell her that things are not going well. DO NOT HIDE IT! ignorance is the worst thing you can do to a girl. let her know you just aren't feeling her and that theres nothing she can do to make things better except to break it off.
2007-02-05 03:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Liya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...you must know the answer! Keep both of them for as long as possible, when they eventually find out about each other... the one that doesn't dump you is a keeper!!!
2007-02-05 03:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mike V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen u fall in luv wid someone they tend to spend a good quantity of time wid each other instead of spending a quality time.....in the end the couple gets bored wid each other or "satisfied wid each other".....
wen this happens u shud give time to each other to get involved in any activity other than being wid each other....
2007-02-05 03:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your lady. Sounds like you are ready to move on, even if it is not with this old friend.
2007-02-05 03:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't wanna be with her, break it off! it's gonna end up hurting her worse if she finds out you are cheating on her! don't prolong a relationship if you feel it isn't going to work
2007-02-05 03:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then stop talking to her and stop seeing her.
Tell her that you are not happy with her.
2007-02-05 03:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋