I'm not talking about a crush, I had a very intense connection with someone I met at a business conference, unlike anything I've ever experienced. He asked for my phone number and I told him no, out of respect for someone I am dating (though that is ending,) but I did give him my business card, and he asked if he could call me sometime (we live in different states, but there's possibility for travel.) I don't have his contact information right now, but it would be very easy to get. I can't stop thinking about this guy after 4 days, what should I do? I should note that nothing physical happened between us other than some intense kissing.
2007-02-05 03:35:23 · 20 answers · asked by skelekitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it can happen. But are you only glad to be with someone. You may just see Love as an escape form being alone. Most don't know how to handle loneliness. Check with your Heart. And be honest. Be sure before yo go make promises that you can't deliver.
2007-02-05 03:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering the same thing. I've known this guy for like 2 weeks. Nothing physical has happened. We've spoken 3-4 times.... and only for a couple of times each time. I can't stop thinking about him.
I've never believed in love at first sight... but I still remember the first time I set my eyes on him.... I felt ....SOMETHING .... I don't know what it was....
The trouble is.... we are complete opposites.
I am sorry, I know this isn't an answer for your question.
But, I guess what I am trying to say is.... Iam starting to believe that it just maybe real.
Why don't you just go out with him and see if it IS real? I mean, if it isn't, then atleast you'll know that it wasn;t meant to be.... otherwise you may be onto a good thing.
2007-02-05 03:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's possible! It's called LUST! If ur in a relationship that is ending, then it's natural for u to feel such a connection like u have with him. Afterall, when was the last time u felt like this? Maybe right when u met ur current bf? And u say it's like something u have never experienced. Well, if everybody in this world were the same, waht a boring place it would be!
2007-02-05 03:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is indeed possible. Intense connections do happen in real life, not just in the movies :-). Since you didn't give him your phone number, I'd say, wait about 10 days, then send him an email--keep it light and breezy, but do somehow casually work in that your current relationship is ending. Let him take it from there. You don't want to be overly aggressive as things work best if you let the guy lead. (Sounds retro, I know, but that's just how it is.)
Good luck!
2007-02-05 03:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by ragged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we have an intense feeling for someone, so incredible
they cannot be explained. But, sometimes these feelings are
short-lived, and I have found, even though you may have an
intense chemistry with someone, that doesnt mean its healthy
or a soul connection-if you have already kissed him intensely,then
that is physical- kissing is very physical. My advice would be
to get to know this person and after knowing him and spending some
time with him, see if there is still that intense feeling
2007-02-05 03:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not give him your phone number out of respect for someone else you are dating but some intense kissing is ok. I would say yes, it is possible for you to fall in love every couple days.
2007-02-05 03:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by 3DDD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can fall in love with someone you've known for a few days.
It's a physical attraction. It's the excitement of a different touch.
Maybe you liked his Brooks Brothers suit.
If you are done with the other, why not enjoy each other.
Love at first sight. I'm sure you've heard of it.
2007-02-05 03:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by icd1765 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Run with it... I think when you know you know and that's it! Sounds like there is quite a bit in common thus far. He knew he wanted you and pursued it ... and you can't stop thinking about him, you are both in the same fields (business), physical attraction. This could be your once in a lifetime - give it a try...
My father proposed to my mother after only a few dates. 27 years later they are still so happily married (it's cute!) .... I would love the chance at that and would encourage you to try it out... what have you got to lose?
2007-02-05 03:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's possible, I was dating someone at that time too, after I met my husband I knew I'm falling in love him, and I just couldn't bare the thought of being unfaithful to my husband, that's why I broke up with my ex bf.
We've been married for 6 years and still very much in love.
2007-02-05 03:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why not? I fell in love with my fiancèe a couple weeks after we met and hooked up. What we both thought was a fling at the beach, turned out to be so much greater. The first time we hung out after hooking up, we went to Central Park. What a place to fall in love. It was something you read about in fairy tales, only it was for real. So if I were you, why not stick it out. My fiancèe and I live over 300 miles apart currently- you can make it happen =]
2007-02-05 03:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by baby_wrestler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋