ive been ill and not in the mood,so hes sulking,he seems to take it to heart,i have tried to explain to him that i still love him,but all he says is that he loves me & feels like it 24/7 even if hes ill,what would you do
2007-02-05 03:21:14 · 20 answers · asked by nikki w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's right!
2007-02-05 03:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would have a serious chat with your man and make him understand what your thinking and feeling. If you are ill then you should not be pressured or made to feel bad cause your not in the mood. That is just ridiculous. Second of all he needs to grow up. Just cause he always wants to do it sick or not doesn't mean you should have to think or feel the same as he does. In any case just talk to him and be honest. If he loves you then he will eventually understand where you are coming from. If not then find someone who is more deserving of your time. Good luck!
2007-02-05 11:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be so immature and obsessed!! If your ill then its fine he should be understand and try and help you.
He might feel like you don't want him and that might make him try harder and when you don't it might knock his confidence so he'll try again and again until thats all he can think about. but it seems as though you are making it clear you love him and still want him.
Just make sure he knows that you still do- if he tries to hard all the time he may end up feeling sleazy thinking about it sll the time and you'll get really fed up with his attempts, maybe.
Sex etc is an intimate thing and no-one should be pressured into it..
2007-02-05 11:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by almo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only have sex when you both feel you want to, if one of you doesnt then it wont feel as good, just explain this to him.
2007-02-05 12:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and how old is he. If he is over 18 and you are not then he's abusing you, and by the way wrong section for your Q dude
2007-02-05 11:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by NavyBoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to take a cold shower!
he has to understand your feelings too - there are 2 people in the relationship!
2007-02-05 11:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by pepstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this guy only cares about himself and not about you at all. Do you really want to be with someone like that??
2007-02-05 11:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Raeshell D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth tell him to get stuffed & show him the door.Sounds as if he wants a sex slave.
2007-02-08 15:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to use his hand every once in a while that way he won't depend on you all the time !
2007-02-05 11:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? Most men are like that! Atleast he loves you and wants to do it with you. Don't let him start looking elsewhere!
2007-02-05 11:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that man shows that he loves you so much and i think having sex with you even when you are sick shows that he want your bond to be stronger. don't let him down he loves you.
2007-02-05 11:55:36 · answer #11 · answered by phacs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋