I find myself in a dilemma .... I am aware that some of my comments and actions offend others and also I can be very cutting with my comments.... I know what I am doing.... but should I just bite my lip.... I can be the must humble and caring person too....
2007-02-05 03:15:44 · 8 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its gd that you realise that some of your comments are a little bit offending to others. You are among the luck people who can actually tell whats bad and whats good. Since you are able to tell what comes out of your mouth.....then its easy to say sorry to the people you are likely to offend. A problem is not a problem once you have accepted...but the problem is to find about what to do about it.
Try not to pass comments about certain situations....think about it a little bit more then say something. Think about how the others are gonna feel once you say those words. Personality is situational....because of the way you have said that sometimes you can be humble and caring. You become humble and caring in reference to the situation.....you comments become offensive because of the situation you find yourself in.
Be careful with certain situations and you will b able to live with others happily....take care
2007-02-05 04:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Babykay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know i am an obnoxious person, some days i even try extra hard to insult people, and i love it
"Alright Listen Up! You Are Incapable of Rational Thought. You Will Not Move, You Will Not Twitch, You Will Not Have Random Synapses In Your Brain Is That Clear? You Will Not Tell Me What You Think. I Dont Care What You Think. What You Think Is IRRELEVANT. Now Lock Your Body And Stand By For Command."
2007-02-05 14:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by kinglee28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worse if you don't mean to come off that way. Some things just don't come out right when you say them. Then, you spend a lot of time thinking about how you should/could have said something and beat yourself up over it.
I'm sure that you are a nice person but:
Honesty is not always the best policy.
Sometimes not saying what you really think is best.
Computers are great for helping to say just the right thing because you get to edit!
2007-02-05 03:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you want these people to like you? Do you care that you hurt other people with your comments? Does it bother you that people possibly call you every name under the sun? If you've answered yes to the above then yeah I think you should tighten up the mouth a bit - if you dont care then I dont think you should change - I just wouldnt be expecting a huge gathering at your funeral!
xx
2007-02-05 03:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that it is better for me to know if I'm doing other people's head in so I can wither cut out my rude behaviour or do it even more to p*ss them off even more lol cruel but ah well, everyone gets over it
2007-02-05 03:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what good is it that you know what you do wrong if you don't try to fix it ......if u think u are being a jackass then try to change before the people you care about start to hate you.
2007-02-05 03:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by NavyBoi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r aware of your bad qualities,then it gets tuffer to commit those again and again.good sign.good luck
2007-02-05 03:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its worse to be unaware of what you are doing... but what you think you are portraying will probably be different from another's perception of it....
2007-02-05 09:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by justaname80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋