I am a full time student as is my boyfriend at a big time university. We do not know what to do once our baby is born. I could live with my mom and take a semester off school, but my mom works full time, so it would be hard for her to help with the baby. But she only lives an hour away from school, so my bf could still go to school and I'd be close by. Another option is to move in with his parents for next semester (my baby is due in July) and we could both take classes part time at a school by him and transfer the credit back to our university. We could take classes this way because unlike my mom, his mom stays home. However, his family lives 8 hrs. away from here! I'd be so far from my friends and family, but his mom would be a big help. Any ideas on these two options, or if anyone could think of anymore optons I would really appreciate it because I am so confused and frustrated right now!
2007-02-05 03:06:59 · 8 answers · asked by susymistychar 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
can you take any online classes? or try to take classes opposite of your boyfriends so at least one parent can be home.
2007-02-05 03:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by olive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMO, since this is a new life change for you, and this is your first child, you may want to consider taking ONE semester off school. You may need it. Everything will be so different, and it would be so hard trying to do all that at first. Just make sure you get back at least part time the next semester, or like someone else said, is there any online courses you could take??? Where you want to stay is up to you and your man, but if your mom works full time, that shouldn't be a problem if you aren't attending school. You should be okay for 8 hours a day with just you and the baby. Just weigh the pros and cons, but consider taking a semester to yourself and the baby to get a routine going. Then maybe by the time you go back, she will be sleeping more, and you can get your bearings. Just make sure you go back!
Good luck!
2007-02-05 12:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by 3rdtimesacharm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you will be away from your family and friends, I think the option of moving in with his parents might work out better for you.Being new parents can be extremely stressful at times and his mom could provide much needed breaks. Also, grandma would probably provide a better environment than any daycare could. You know your baby would be safe and loved by grandma and probably a little spoiled.LOL. You would still have the option to continue with school and your credits are able to transfer back to the university. It would probably be a temporary situation until your baby gets older anyway. Plus, being new parents does not allow a whole lot of time or energy for hanging out with friends. You could still drive the 8 hours for a visit when you and your bf are on a school break. I feel for ya. It's a tough decison you have to make. But, remember, you must keep in mind what is best for your baby. What option is going to provide your child with a safe and secure environment while you are trying to concentrate on getting your degree? Good Luck and Congradulations on the new arrival. I'm sure all will work out for you.
2007-02-05 11:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do have a room ready and set to go for the little one have all close ready for anything have dippers and fresh blackents because a baby can get sick for the smaalest of things and have a corners baby proof witch means put soft things on the egdes of the tables or any shape corner or any corner a baby head is very fragiale and so is his body and put a plastic covering on all the outlets in the house babys tend to put things in them as did i when i was young i'll never do that again haha ok next is to buy some sort of toy or some sort of thing for the baby can chew on that won't hurt his mouth and he can have fun with ot the same time have baby food and have milk and if the baby is still brest feeding then have bottles of brest milk ready to go for you dont have to waste a lot of time to put the baby back to sleep and also always watch the baby even if u put him in a play pin because the find ways to hurt themselfs or find a way to get and go do something that will hurt him so always keep a close eye on him ok well thats about it and i really hope the baby is heathly and well and congratulations with you bundle of joy thanks for reading this and God Bless
2007-02-05 11:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by chubstheman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you transfer somewhere closer to him and yaw get a apartment or just live with him and his mom. Having the father involved helps. Just do the transfer or another college nearby untill yaws years are up at those schools then get a place together. And if you talk to his mom or your mom to know how they feel about it and there opinions. Cuz you don't want to live with someone or have someone move in if people don't like one another.
2007-02-05 11:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about taking care of the baby by yourself, his familiy's house would be a good option. If you feel that you can handle it on your own, stay where you are and perhaps stay with your parents. Your best bet is to take a semester off, stay where you are and return when you are comfortable.
2007-02-05 11:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you cant and should not depend on anyone to take care of your child. Both of you need to get a job and take turns taking care of your own baby. Sadly, sometimes you just have to sacrifice your dreams if you bring a baby into your lives.
2007-02-05 11:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well lf your mom works and you want to go back to school then hire a babysitter to watch the baby.
2007-02-05 11:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by pamela d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋