i am mixed myself of russian and european descent such as irish, english, italian, spanish and some other stuff. Anyway i have dated so many different races and mainly women that are mixed as well. Three years ago i dated my first black woman and she was dark complected and this was different for me im not use to getting weird looks and people talking behind our back. A few people would say you make a great couple but mainly your thuggish looking individuals would start problems even almost a fight a few times. I have also dated light skinned and medium skinned black women with no problems only compliments. I guess the question is why does society not accept it when a man of a different race dates a dark skinned black women but accepts it when she is light or medium skinned? unless this is just in my case? anybody else encounter the same problems?
2007-02-05 02:35:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well that is just how society is. even amongst African americans themselves, some of them prefer a lighter skinned person over a darker skin, even some lighter skinned have something against darker skinned, so its just society and how it operates, but just keep doing you, and dont worry about what others things, because people are going ot always judge and hate regardless, but thats beautiful that you except ppl for who they are and not work color they are, because we are all the same we just look different
2007-02-05 02:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by lefteye w 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that this country has deep rooted racism due to the history of slavery. Slaves were very dark because they were from Africa of course. The lighter skin blacks are just products of interracial breeding. I think that because the first blacks in this country were very dark and they were slaves, it still a taboo concept to date someone with a very dark skin complexion. I am a lighter skin black women, but I think all skin tones in the black race are beautiful. Don't let people's closed minds affect how you feel about anyone regardless of race.
2007-02-05 02:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sharisse F 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stupid people are more "accepting" of the lighter skinned black women (and men). Black is black, regardless of the darkness. I don't get people. I really don't. Sorry you've had issues.
2007-02-05 02:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 09:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try my case, married to a Japanese woman in the seventies.
Yes there was racism.
I grew through that.
The only people who are racist now are the very ignorant and the haters.
You can't talk to either.
Live your life.
2007-02-05 02:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET ME TELL YOU PLAIN. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL. GIVE YOUR PICTURE TO AN ARTIST MAKE YOU BLACK U WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE INDEED UGLY. GIVE THE PICTURE OF THE MOST UGLY BLACK PERSON TO PAINT IT WHITE U WILL SEE THE BEAUTY THERE CANNOT BE COMPERED TO THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WHITE FELLOW. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL AND HOT.
2007-02-05 02:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you need to keep it up. that kind of thinking is fading away. mixed race couples are okay.
2007-02-05 02:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋