How do i get someones attention back, when they said we are not compatable.?

Question

How do i get someones attention when they said we are not compatable, because i wasnt being myself. i wasnt being an outgoing, talkative, conversating type of person which thats what they like, which this is how i am normally. But i really liked this person and when im around them my mind goes blank and i freeze up. So thats why it seemed like i was quiet, i was being nervous around them, now they are not interested in me any more because i didnt open up. no what should i do to win them back and show them who i really am

Answer 1

There's an old saying:

"First Impressions are Lasting Impressions."

Unfortunately, there was a window of opportunity there and the window slammed shut. But I can relate to what happened to you. In H.S., I had a major crush on one of my classmates, but I didn't do anything to pursue her. "Cold Feet" Syndrome. Get the best of us no matter the situation. My window got slammed, and I just let it go. I would advise you do the same. There are rare instances that the window re-opens. You may get a second chance, but probably not. Look for another person who doesn't make you feel that way, but chances are, you might wind up on that boat again.

You just got to "captain up," and take control of that boat, you know what I mean?

Answer 2

Send her a email or tell her face to face what u just told us.On what happen and how u really are. Otherwise she will still think your not compatable if she doesn't know what happen.Ask her for another chance to show her the real u.Take her somewhere nice.Good luck on her or him.

Answer 3

If you have the opportunity play the jealousy card by pretending you have no emotions and surrounding yourself with attractive males and show your talkative side in front of him.
Thats how i got my fella!
however if this doesnt work then there IS plently more fish in the sea, its all about a matter of time.