He is five years old and having a tonsillectomy, an adenoidectomy, and ear tubes. I want to get him something special. Any good websites or ideas will be much appreciated. Also, can anyone tell me what to expect after these surgeries?
2007-02-05 02:06:34 · 12 answers · asked by Traci J 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I had my tonsils and adnoids out at the age of 25-it hurt for about 24 hours. After that I felt fine-I went out to dinner the night I got home. I have talked to lots of moms whose kids have had this done and it seems the same-24 hours bad, next 12-24 is like a mild sore throat and then back to normal. My son had ear tubes put in back in July a week before he turned 1. He was sleepy and fussy after surgery for about 4-5 hours. We got home and he walked to his toys (he had not been able to walk long distances prior to the surgery). He was his normal self that afternoon and was cleared to return to day care the next day-the tubes are out patient surgery takes 1/2 a day tops. I stayed home with him for 2 days but he was fine and could have gone back to his regular routine the same day as surgery. But your a mom-no matter what anyone says you will be worried about him.
I would get him a "lovey" (soft stuffed toy) that you give him before the surgery. Carry the lovey with you for a few days (even better, stick it in your bed under the covers for a few days so it smells like home). When you give it to him, tell him it is his special friend for the hospital to keep him company. You can talk about the lovey saying things like "lovey might be a little scared about staying in a big place, what do you think" you can get him to open up and tell you how he feels by telling you what he think lovey feels. But end these talks by telling lovey it will be okay and he will be safe and give him a hug-then tell your son the same thing. He will remember that while he is in the hospital and it will make him feel better. And of course lots of hugs and kisses! Hope that all goes well!
2007-02-06 04:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by VAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be feeling well for a few days so get him something that will entertain him if he is laid up in bed. An activity book of his favorite character. A good kids movie that he can watch over and over again is also a good idea. Maybe a special robe or blanket to cuddle with. Remember to get him some special treats to eat like jello, pudding, other things that are easy to eat. He probably won't even notice the ear tubs but his throat will be sore for a few days. good luck
2007-02-05 05:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll probably won't feel like playing right away. Maybe a new movie to watch and a game when he feels up to playing. =) My middle son had tubes put in and adeniodectomy also at 2 1/2. I brought some of his favorite toys for him to play with before the surgery. And after surgery I gave the surgeron his favorite stuff animal ( actually the one he sleeps with) for when he woke up in unfamiliar surroundings. During his surgery I hugged that horse the whole time. After that surgery I was called into recovery to hold him. Before Surgery Hubby brought him to the operating room since I knew I couldn't handle it.
Good luck.
2007-02-05 02:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
surgery in generaly makes you feel like a trainwreck for the next week or so. I had emergency surgery after a pretty bad car accident and was bed ridden for almost three months. The one thing I got that really helped me pass the time was a gameboy. I think I beat supermario brothers fifty times!! anyway, any kind of game would probably be a good choice. Something that will take his mind of the pain. Hope he gets better quick!
2007-02-05 02:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_chic6944 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi my name is traci too so your question caught my attention i dont know what to expect after these specific serguries that is a questions best directedto your doctor and as far as the gift goes get your son some thing small to keep him busy whilehes in the hospital then tell him he can haveany thing he choses once he gets out of the hospital make sure he knows he has limits a new playstation would be out of the question 600 is too much for a just because gift i think lower than 100 is acceptable but hell feel so privlaged to be able to chose his own gift good luck
2007-02-05 02:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by mommyofanangel06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My nephew had a tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy. He was sore and slept a lot but other than that.. he was so glad it was over. My son had to have his teeth fixed and we got him a blanket of superman and a notebook with superman pages. He was thrilled. Good luck
2007-02-05 02:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about a personalized book? Kids love to hear their name in the storyline. Go to this website http://www.tlc-expressions.com They have lots of titles like Batman, Spider-Man, X-Men, Dinosaur Land, Scooby-Doo, Looney Tunes, Sports titles and so many more. Check it out - they're very reasonably priced, and make a wonderful & unique gift... Good Luck!
2007-02-06 11:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Little*Boots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sitter's 5 yr. old just had an accident sledding. She was out of school for a week, one of the 'room mothers' gave her a gift certificate for Build-A-Bear! She's been there before, but she was happy to go and create a new one!
2007-02-05 02:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either something cuddly like a teddybear or a nice soft blanket, or something to entertain him, gameboy is a good idea, small toys he can play with in bed, a movie, coloring books and crayons, whatever he likes to do that he can do in bed.
2007-02-05 02:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sixteen, he commencing as much as get previous for toys. What approximately dvds and books? which will save him occupied. a movie instruct present pass? A CD of the music of his decision? A enjoying cards deck? And sure, he can shuffle with one hand. it is going to take a while to get used to it nevertheless. that's a advantageous gesture nevertheless and its the belief what somewhat counts.
2016-09-28 10:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋