a couple months ago my ex called me and said he still thinks about me and even asked if i have met anyone new then we ended up having phone sex after a while of that he said he kinda felt guilty because he has another gf,...if hes truly happy with her why is he calling me up and talking to me about this...but now i have heard they are getting married they have been dating about 6 months hes 27 shes 19 obviously he lies to her especially about me.i called him to confirm his marriage and all he told me was he had to move on from me and that he was really sorry...why did he say this why didnt he say he loved her...is this how guys usually are even at his age? and can their relationship with the age difference,the lies and did i mention he has changed everything about himself to make her happy could that really work? oh and then he tried telling me he was just trying to make the break up easier for me but im pretty sure i didnt ask him to say those things to me. what do yall think?
2007-02-05 01:53:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when they first met he lied to her about his age and even how long he was with me
2007-02-05 02:11:53 · update #1
Ever heard the song "Lips of an Angel" by Hinder? Tells you exactly what he is doing.
2007-02-05 01:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off it could work, because if he wasnt for certain he was happy with this 19 yr old he wouldnt be doing all what he is doing now. Maybe he called you because she may lack somethings that you can give him, but this is definatly playing games on his part, and he is not right for doing that when he knew his intentions were not good, and if his girl knew then that would be a whole new topic. And he is not making the break up easy because if he did he wouldnt be trying to make it seem like something that its not, unfortunatly ppl do things like that, but it seems he really loves this 19 yr old, and yes it was playing mind games, you have to be the one to say no dont call my phone, and no im not going to have phone sex, because all thats doing is bringing up feelings again
2007-02-05 10:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by lefteye w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't talk to him again. he used you for the phone sex and has a new g/f. You have to move on with your life and just forget about him. There are other men out there that will be willing to date you and become your new man. leave the ex alone Good luck!
2007-02-05 09:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋