She has messed me about so much, cheating, lying then pretending she likes me etc. I want to get sweet revenge and deeply hurt her. She in very insecure and she definately deserves it. Please help I want to do it in a way which is not were she thinks what a horribly guy but where she thinks I wish I hadn't made him like that.
2007-02-05 01:50:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can get her back by becoming Happy,yourself. She's miserable. And she wants you to be the same. Get above her kind. And show her what Class is really like. She's a User! Therefore she's a Loser! Next!
2007-02-05 01:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an ***. Whatever action you take will only show her that she was 100 % justified in everything she did to you. You don't get even with someone like that by trying to hurt them - instead you move on and get even with them by being happier, more successful, and obviously better off without them. What will hurt her the most is when she realizes that she was nothing but a speed bump on your little highway of life. She is gone she is nothing and you are over her totally - you never say a bad word about her, you don't call her and hang up, you don't follow her around, you don't ask about her, if you see her you smile say hi and keep on walking - all because every other thing in your life is more important than she is. IT IS OVER AND YOU HAVE MOVED ON!!! It is the best revenge for many reasons - she will feel insignificant and in time you really will move on.
2007-02-05 09:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for any one of us to treat each other badly, and I can understand how angry you feel at her for treating you badly. Maybe if you understood why she behaved as she did you might not take it so personal. Believe it or not, but a person that is insecure are people who function out of fear. The things they do, reflect inner turmoil of not being able to feel safe in loving and receiving love. If you were older and more experienced you probably would have seen this in her from the beginning and so would have saved yourself a lot of heartache by avoiding a relationship with her. Just take this as a listen to be learn-ed and be a bigger person by just praying that she will eventually get the help she desperately needs..Hope I was of help.
2007-02-05 10:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend she doesn't exist and move on with your life. It's the best thing for YOU; you don't need someone like that in your life and shouldn't waste time getting revenge. The best "revenge" is being happy. So find a way to be happy - without her. Best wishes.
2007-02-05 09:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by §Sally§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself this question: Is she really worth your time and effort to sabbatoge her life at the moment. You should focus your time and energy on someone who will appreciate you. If she is a cruel individual her karma will catch up with her without you putting additional attention on her. Think about what consequences you may have to face. If you are a kind person then you will only feel worse in the end for any actions put forth to create problems in her world. How we behave as human beings are a reflection of who we are inside.
2007-02-05 10:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by aubrie27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think deeply hurting her is a bit too strong maybe, you just need to show her that you can have a much better life without her, prove to everyone including her how great you are and how successful you can be. It will be a much longer lasting punishment than anything else you can do
2007-02-05 09:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by joanna b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to lower yourself to her level?? Or rise above?? They best way to get a female- is act as if she was no great loss... If you actually seek revenge on her-- she wins.... Move on.. find someone worthy of you.. You are gonna go through a lot of bad seeds before you find that special one.. Do you really want to waste time seeking revenge on each one? Just move on to the prize... Because those kind of people will ALWAYS get theirs...in the end!!
2007-02-05 10:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by darkness breeds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge, huh. Well my favorite way is to wait until her helicopter takes off and shoot it with a grenade arrow like Sly Stallone did in Rambow (great film).
Ok gentleman, I think that you should go to church a little more and learn about forgiveness. Thing is nobody's perfect and the cycle of hate has to stop somewhere. I guess telling her that you disapprove of her behavior, telling her it's over, and asking her to go to church with you (to excise her sinful ways) would cut pretty deep.
2007-02-05 10:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Wes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i just say that i asked an almost identical question abt 5 mins ago and everyone called me evil...and most of them were male
anyway lol in reference 2 ur question, the best thing u could possibly do is ignore her, dont look at her, initiate any convo w/ her just pretend that she doesnt exist. my ex did this to me and it drove me absolutely nuts! and u wont come off as mean, cos ur not doing anything horrible. when my ex did it to me, i kept blaming myself and feeling like crap, eg he doesnt find me attractive anymore etc, and got me plotting my very on revenge against him. Good luck!
2007-02-05 09:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by o o g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the truth: wanting to "deeply hurt" someone damages only you. If this person is such a jerk, the best and only thing to do is to remove yourself completely from their life.
2007-02-05 09:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by justagirl33552 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋