whats the best way to go about making my ex really really jealous, yet maintaining my own dignity? i know theres the usual hooking up w/ other guys method, but what else can i do?
2007-02-05
01:38:08
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wow ok guys, plz dont attack me, i have my reasons: this jerk f%*ked me around so much for the past 2 years and it really hurt, so in order to move on, i feel i have to get even. Your all very welcome to judge, but i feel this is what would be best for me at this point.
2007-02-05
01:45:16 ·
update #1
DO I SENSE A DESPICABLE DOUBLE STANDARD HERE? A MALE JST ASKED A VERY SIMILAR QUESTION 2 MINE AND EVERYBODY IS ANSWERING HIS DAMN QUESTION, NOT CALLING HIM A CHILD, AND EVIL AND MISERABLE. IF U HAV NO INTENTION OF HELPING ME OUT HEN DONT f%*KING ANSWER. SIMPLE AS THAT.
note: thnx to all the ppl who helped out i really appreciate it :)
2007-02-05
02:00:51 ·
update #2
Man, hooking up with other guys is the best way.
When your around them, acting like they're not a big deal is the other way.
2007-02-05 01:40:27
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answered by Work is for Busters 3
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The best way to make your ex jealous if you feel the need to play this childish game is you out grow all the games and show them that without them you’ve got it going on. Do things that he or she wouldn’t expect you to. Show him or her that your life hasn’t stopped since you broke up that it’s only gotten better.
Better yet, be the bigger person and stop with the games. Move on with your life and stop having evil thoughts. It’s really not worth it because that game could blow up in your face. If you don’t want to be with him wish him well and let the relationship go. If you do want to be with him instead of trying the jealousy game why not be the bigger person and approach him about getting back together.
2007-02-05 09:50:41
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answered by Pisces Princess 6
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You have to ask yourself, would the ex even care if you went on with life. They are an ex for a reason. If the answer is yes, then I think just living your life and getting on with things could make an ex jealous. Also dating someone else right away, always helps too.
2007-02-05 09:42:21
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answered by Tabitha 4
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Best thing in the world to annoy an ex is by just getting on with your life, show them that you are over them and having a ball ( which doesn't mean you have to jump on first person that shows you any interest) that way retaining your diginity and self respct. Then walk away forever
2007-02-05 09:42:41
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answered by angelrose0105 4
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You make him jealous by showing him you are going great without him. Let him see you are looking good, happy, and have a lot of nice friends. Don't play the get him jealous game, it will be too transparent and make you look immature and foolish. Sometimes "silence is golden", the less he hears about you, sees you, the more he might wonder what you are doing. Good luck to you, hope I helped.
2007-02-05 09:46:50
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answered by pictureshygirl 7
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to just have him here you've been with other guys isnt going to do it. find out where he is going to be one night show up wih a date act like u r haveing the best time and dont even act like the ex is even there. this will drive him crazy, but when trying to make someone jealous dont be mad if he does the same thing and u end up the jealous one. god luck
2007-02-05 09:44:35
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answered by angelbrat462901 2
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Healthy relationships are based on "love and respect", not games and deceit. Mature and confident people have no need to "play these games". I see no way for anyone to "maintain their dignity" if they engage in this type of behavior.
If you still have feelings for your "ex", be honest and tell him. If your "ex" isn't interested, I'd say it's time to deal with your feelings and "move on". You deserve to be with someone who loves and respects you.
Good luck.
2007-02-05 09:51:47
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answered by Mugsy's Place 5
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I don't know why you'd wanna make him jealous. Is it because you are jealous of him? or you want him to want you? I don't think it's possible to maintain your dignity. HOw about you try forgeting about him, and move on normally with your life. If he's still hung up on you he'll be jealous that you're getting on with your life!
2007-02-05 09:40:46
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answered by Estelle 3
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Ignore him and if you really want to know if there's any chance of him wanting you back, he'll actually get upset that you're totally ignoring him...
But if he doesn't want you back, trying to make him jealous wasn't going to work in the first place... So just ignore him for a while first...don't make a fool of yourself trying to make him jealous and he's paying no attention to you...lol
2007-02-05 09:41:53
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answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5
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1ST LETS ASK THE QUESTION WHY U WANT TO GET UR X JEALOUS. R U JEALOUS OF UR X?
IF U R, LET TIME HEAL ALL WOUNDS.don't PLAY OUT AN ACT THAT WILL DEMEAN U! INSTEAD GO OUT AND OCCUPY UR SELF WITH OTHER PEOPLE AND AMUSEMENTS, AND ABOVE REMEMBER THAT EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE WILL LEAD U TO BEING A STRONGER PERSON. AND MAYBE U'LL SEE UR X TRYING 2 GET U JEALOUS!
2007-02-05 09:44:47
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answered by shadow 5
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