2007-02-05 01:34:27 · 12 answers · asked by chiechie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do love the other guy.. same as the other.. i'm both comfortable with these 2.. the thing is... i don't know whom to choose.. worst case? they are bestfriends... this is bad...
2007-02-05 01:43:52 · update #1
How can you love ether when you are not being faithful?
Dump both you neither truely love either.
2007-02-05 01:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn’t sound like you love either. The first guy you were with, you can’t say that you love him, you can say that you loved him if you still loved him then you wouldn’t have the second guy. The second guy, you can’t love him because if you did then you wouldn’t still have the first guy. Right now you’re very confused and you might want to just be honest and let them both know that right now you want to be friends and date them both. What’s the worse that can happen, they both walk away? You’re bringing a lot of stress on to yourself that can be simply avoided. Take time to get to know yourself and these 2 guys before making any sudden decisions or moves.
2007-02-05 09:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be careful here; there is a thai proverb, "don't try to hold on to a fish with each hand" or, when you have a situation like this you will tend to mess it up with both...
2007-02-05 09:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by karen i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart, even though you may think you love them both the same... your heart will tell you differnet, and if you dont lose one of them now you might lose them both for good!!!
Put the question to yourself... who can you just not live without, and who can you never part with!!
2007-02-13 08:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by lollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's not really love maybe it's lust, they kinda feel the same, of course love is much deeper, if you feel guilty for being with one over the other maybe you love that one and lust after the other
2007-02-05 09:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by B-E-B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love who loves your character,respect your decisions and support your attitude.
2007-02-05 09:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by lohit k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one does you heart tell you love more?
2007-02-05 09:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a list of the pros and cons for each guy once you see it in black and white things should be alittle more clear.
2007-02-05 09:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by angelbrat462901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop feeling bad for yourself cause that isn't going to fix this problem. you need to look deep inside and see who you love. keep that chin up, and focus.
2007-02-05 09:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont go with nan one one of them
2007-02-13 08:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by yung mony (christin T) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋