My mom asked me to die just bcz i am not very pretty and not very smart.She shouts at me whenever she gets a chance.Though i tried my best to make peace with her and did things to please her she completely hates me.I am not old enough to leave.
2007-02-05 01:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by madhu mitha 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
This is abuse, emotional abuse! Ask for help from an adult you trust as you shouldn't have to undergo such treatment. Your mum probably has issues of her own which she needs treatment and help with but its not an excuse for her to treat you badly.
2007-02-05 01:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I know she is your mother, but you don't have to believe everything you hear coming out of her mouth. Most likely you are pretty. And you are smart for trying to find help. I suggest talking to an adult you trust about this. If things get worse I think you should talk to a school counselor too. Maybe your mom needs medication. No one deserves (especially you) to be treated that way. If you decide to live with it, you will regret it later. You do not want to turn out the way she did. She probably had an abusive upbringing that is why she is like that. If you cannot move out and your mother is still abusing you then I can only suggest that you know that what she is saying is very untrue. You should never take your life for anyone. It is God's gift to you, not your mother's.
2007-02-05 01:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, whether you realize it or not, this is child abuse. Nobody deserves to be treated this way, especially by there own mother. You should tell a teacher or family doctor or someone you trust how your mother is treating you so that you can get the care you need and your mother can get the mental help she needs. This is not fair to you. Hang in there hun. I bet you are very pretty and very smart. If you need to talk, my email is xindy924@yahoo.com.
2007-02-05 05:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Xindy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that her problem lies within heself. She is projecting her feelings onto you. So, I would ask her, Do you want to die? Are you so unhappy with how your life turned out that you would consider death a better option than living?
Personally, then I would tell her to get life insurance because I like life insurance. I tell all my family members this. If you can't fullfill your duties in life satisfactorily, then at least allow others to benefit from your death.
2007-02-05 01:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by Zeke 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel i have gone threw that but there is something that u should know dont do things to please her do it for you as long as u know that u tried ur best thats all that count i know that its hard cuz u want ur mom to be proud of you but do thing for u dont do things for her because if u do u will neer be happy doing stuff topleace other ppl belive me i learned the hard way well if u need to talk or anything feel free to e-mail me at la_girl200712231223@yahoo.com
2007-02-05 02:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you have such an abusive mother. There is something wrong with her. The only way you can get through this is to not let her get to you.
2007-02-05 01:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! i am so sorry. a mother should never say anything like that to you. you were right to try and make peace with her.
do you have a realtive you feel comfortable talking with or visiting with. if you do than you may want to try and live with them.
2007-02-05 01:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by HorseLover#1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋