He said I am coming to your house today and we willbe together because you are the one for me. It makes me so mad. I told him I want to be alone, and he should move on. I said I am not playing games no more and not playing with you.
He said if I date anyone else, it will be bad for whoever they are.
I am 27 he is 23, I live with my parents right now. We have dated off and onfor 6 years. Im so tired of this relationship, and told him I jsut dont feel that much anymore.
Why does he do this and how do I get him to stop acting stupid?
He says if you won't be with me, I am going to hurt myself or whoever you are with.
2007-02-05 01:24:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Might I suggest a "retraining order". He sounds like someone who could be dangerous, someone you definitely don't need in your life.
If you have made it very clear to him that he is out of your life, then do whatever you have to do to make sure he stays out of your life. Don't accept his calls, don't talk to him. By allowing him to speak with you, it obviously gives him some "hope".
If he wants to "act stupid", it's his problem. Don't allow him to make it yours. If you need to, take some legal action to protect yourself. You deserve to be with someone who loves and respects you.
Good luck.
2007-02-05 01:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your EX then you know he just wants some easy sex. This guy is deranged. You need to make your parents and the police department well aware of this nutcase before you end up on the 6:00 o'clock news.
2007-02-05 01:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is hurting just let him run his cycle. If this persist, then you might have to get the law involved, 6 years is aa long time to get over, he is just hurting and he thinks he still loves you, he is lonely. Don't talk to him or let him come over that is not going to help him with this! good luck
2007-02-05 01:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the third time you've asked this using different words. Almost all of them have told you to stop talking to him, get a restraining order, etc. You haven't listened. Apparently, you aren't getting the answers you want. So, let me try this one more time...
GET A RESTRAINING ORDER OUT ON HIM AND STOP &%$%^*& TALKING TO HIM.
2007-02-05 01:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sld shut him down!
rite now
u need to tlk to him face to face and tell him that u dont want him anymore
tell him to be a man and accept that tell him that if he wants u can be friends but u will not be going together u sick and tired of doing this and u wont
he needs to respect how u feel honey and he needs to listen to u
tell him if he really loves you he will back off
2007-02-05 01:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. ask him to get a life darling. and believe me... men sometimes comes with the super famous excuse of hurtin themselve bc of you... that's a BIG BULLSHIT!!! Don't believe in him, dont listen to him. keep going with your life and the best wishes....
2007-02-05 01:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋