Its heigh a big deal for you when talk about dating ????
Alotttt of people bothers me bc my bf is same height than me but bc our body proportion, i look bigger than him. my friends and some of my family joke me around bc he seems shorter than me but he's real not. I feel sometimes ashamed bc when i go out with him i have to wear high heels.. just in some cases.....
how can i advoid such comments that really make me upset and bothered????
2007-02-05 01:21:59 · 18 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just in case, im 5'7
2007-02-05 01:28:15 · update #1
and he is 5'11. lol
2007-02-05 01:28:35 · update #2
As long as u like him....Dont let any1 tease u about it bc if u love him thts the only thing tht matterss Good luck
2007-02-05 01:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to be taller then I am right now I'm 5`7 and the guys i date are always taller then me ... But if i was 6`0 i wouldnt mind dating a guy shorter than me...
2007-02-05 06:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is about 1-2 inches shorter than me. We still do get stares when we go out but I just become totally oblivious to the stares coz when I am out I only care about the man I'm with... my bf who had the guts to come after and accept a tall girl as myself. I always thought I had a problem with myself as most guys get intimidated by my height. It was a blow to my self-esteem as I felt totally repulsive to the opposite sex.
2007-02-05 02:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweetiepie_cal_5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sweety is the same height as me, so I just don't wear heels. My kids are even bigger than us!! My Mum always says "Good things come in small packages" He makes me happy - and that's all that matters. You need to toughen up and think about HIS feelings - never mind your "embarrassment" Keep in mind - everyone is the same size when you're lying down!!
2007-02-05 01:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love you man and he loves you why would you care about what others think? Others, (your family and friends) aren’t in your relationship. If you feel good about being you and having that man in your life why are you letting others put doubt in your head about your body and man? What you need to do it let your family and so-called friends know that them teasing you really bothers you. Be the bigger person and talk calmly to them about it and let them know that you really care for your man and what they’re doing isn’t fair to you or him. Ask them if it was them would they like being teased. Tell them to put themselves in your shoes and just imagine how it feels. Then come out and tell them there may be things about them that you could tease them about but you don’t because family and friends aren’t suppose to act that way towards one another. Let them know that you have a good man that supports you in every way and instead of them teasing you about him they should be congratulating you. Then if it really bothers you and they make the decision not to stop then let them know you may not deal with them as often as you were because of how they’ve been treating you.
2007-02-05 01:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, i'm specific he will benefit a pair of inches quickly, incredibly whilst he hit sixteen - 18. I also have a twin and we've been continually the comparable top and then whilst he became into around sixteen he shot up.
2016-10-01 11:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what other people say. My boyfriend is Asian, he's not only shorter, but he's thinner. While he doesn't like being short, he is comfortable with me and I'm comfortable with him. I love him for just being him. People generally don't say anything to us, but they might look at us not only because of size differences but because he's Asian too. Meh, I don't care what other people see and think and you shouldn't either. We'd go crazy if we cared about every little thing that other people say and think.
2007-02-05 01:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Groovy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the people with the comments need to grow up, since when did dating and relationships, depend on your height, sweetie you ,love him,,every inch, so be proud, and don't bother with the jokes, just let them roll off your back, keep your chin, you have a man that loves you!
2007-02-05 01:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by pippy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tall women creep me out. Im not saying like an inch or two taller, im talking about girls who are like 6 foot tall. It scares me.
2007-02-05 01:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like a girl that's taller than me. It doesn't make me look as if i'm less than a man. It just showes she's taller.
2007-02-05 01:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by impossibilityoftruth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋