ok so the longest relationship i have had is only 5 months and that ended badly.now im with i great girl been together for just under 3 months,i cant stop thinking about her and she is really nice but i cant help thinking that something is still missing, im very flirty nd she isnt so when i flirt with her i dont get much back and i get the feeling that she is ignoring me i dont know if im in love with her or not its just very confusing
2007-02-05 00:58:23 · 15 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time to fall in love..it doesnt happen overnight..just have some fun dont get all serious too soon.
2007-02-08 00:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is decided by both parties, not just you. Lots of people think they're in a "relationship" with someone and the other person is not even thinking like that. Maybe your girl is trying to play hard to get to keep you chasing after her. What they don't realize is that a nice guy will give up on the chase and leave them in the dust. Just confront her and tell her exactly where you're coming from and what you're looking for. If she's not on the same page, it's time to get real and move on.
2007-02-05 09:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probaly does like you but shows it in a different way maybe you shud calm down with the flirting as if ur longest relationship has only been 5 months u must be doin sumfin wrong and flirting cud b the answer
2007-02-05 09:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel - don't mention the flirt thing as she may be offended - just say that you really like (love???) her and see how she reacts - if you get a good reaction I wouldnt worrie too much - some people aren't that flirty you sound very happy with her and I wish you all the best
2007-02-05 09:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by pat relationships, you may be coming on too strong.
Flirty is nice as long as it's not 24/7. Give her some space and cool your jets or you will end up losing her as well. People like attention but they don't enjoy being smothered to death.
Too much of a good thing is still too much
2007-02-05 09:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a feeling that something is missing, then you have answered your own question.
It's when there is NO DOUBT WHATSOEVER that you know it's right. Flirting is good fun and I'd recommend it to anyone in a relationship. BUT! It depends on what kind of flirting and why you are flirting? Is it a bit of fun or a sign that something really is missing?
Ultimately, you have to be true to yourself and to her. No-one wants second-best. It's all or nothing.
2007-02-05 09:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by rock_and_roll_machine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep that flirting up and you'll have her wondering who else you're flirting with when she's not around. As you can tell, your being very flirty is a turn off for her.
2007-02-05 09:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see how it goes - we all have our ups and downs even with 'the one'. Ive been with my partner for 6 years now and although ve had bad phases and confusion - im so glad we are still together - i love him to bits!!!!
Dont go out looking for love - it will find you and you will know when it has!! (Cheesy but true!!)
2007-02-05 09:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Chazza xx Baby born 7/11/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not as open with relationships and it takes a while before they are comfortable in a new and even older relationship!!!! Give her time and not pressure.
2007-02-05 10:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to have your ego boosted and you're not getting it, from her. Three months isn't very long for a relationship, give it a chance to develop.
2007-02-05 09:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋